How to get my girlfriend to give me more head?

I've asked for it but to no avail. I usually rub her feet and rub her back for many days. She's too tired to give me a blowjob. When she does (once a month) she usually stops so I can finish inside her. Okay, I understand that its not fun and all that. But would it be that much to spend 10 minutes a month doing something I like? Maybe I should stop running her back for an hour every day. It's like she's just not into it at all. If she does do it, she gets tired really soon.
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  • Get a new girlfriend who likes giving head. Some women just don't like it and never will, some are just lazy and only want to be pleased not please their man. Either way it sounds like this is important to you. What you have to figure out is, is it a deal breaker, or can you deal with not getting oral.

    Do you give oral? as some women won't give unless they get.

    • How can I find such a girl?

    • Oh trust me we are out here you just need to look. My guy friends tell me that women who are self absorbed or high maintenance don't like to give oral. Also I've been told younger women are less likely to give oral too. So my advice is to look for a woman 30 or so, who enjoys being generous with her time and affection, and you might just find a woman who will do just about anything to please her man...kind a like me lol

  • Well do you go down on her? That way it can be a "ill scratch your back if you scratch mine" situation... I never used to like it either but I compromised with my ex.. After a while I actually enjoyed it.. Hopes this helps!

    • I have before but she doesn't really like it. It's not "hard" enough for her.. so a back rub, I would think, suffice

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  • Then don't do something she likes. that's just wrong! One time isn't going to hurt her. She's one lazy girlfriend.

    • That is a great answer. After reading the question, I was not expecting you to criticize her. You're cool.

  • Just dump her. She's selfish, you can do better.

  • Does she give you sex? She may feel that giving you regular orgasms is getting the job done just fine...

    • Yes... but I do love blowjobs... they feel very good...

    • Stop doing stuff just so you can get head. Also, it really does make our mouth and jaw sore. It's even harder if a guy is well endowed. If you're getting off on a regular basis, why take away her sexual pleasure so you can get the precise kind of orgasm you want?

    • I guess more than once of month is selfish of me...

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  • Not fun it's it the best ever. You need a new gf

    • How do I know which girl loves giving head?

    • easy when she does it she enjoys it too! You will see a difference