How to get over being embarrassed from queefing?

So, I just queefed for the first time in front of a guy, and I'm embarrassed. I have queefed before when I was doing my crunches, which I thought was weird, but I was getting fingered and when he was done I moved and a few slipped out. then he tells me he deliberately did that, but I'm so embarrassed. He said not to worry, but I'm scared for sex and doing doggie position.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • If a girl has sex, she's going to queef sooner or later. That's the reality. It happens to everyone, and it's no big deal, and in most cases, it's the guy's fault for not keeping himself inside you. If he opens you up and lets air inside, then inserts back inside you, that air will get pushed out. What are you going to do? It's not your fault.

    I've never known a guy who was bothered by it, and the best thing to do is laugh it off. One of my past girlfriends used to kind of look back at me with a funny scowl on her face whenever it happened, and it always made me laugh my ass off (at her face, not the queefing).

    Done right, sex is noisy, messy, sticky, sweaty, smelly, and a whole lot of fun. Stop making such a big deal about something that everyone deals with.

    • Ha ha, he said he deliberately made me queef by pulling backwards when fingering instead of straight in and out. But gosh it was awful, like three or so of them, I was so shocked :(

    • Nothing to be shocked or concerned about. It's just air.

    • Jes, it's a queef not a fart. Even if it sounds juicy, nothing is coming out.

  • Try to find out why exactly you feel embarrassed about it. I never heard that a woman does not queef (I think it really happens to all of you every then in a while, right?). So there's physically nothing you can do about it, you have to settle with it psychologically.

    He surely liked it, it's also a sign that you are really getting into it (e.g. vagina entry is opening wider). There's not much I can tell you than trying to settle with it, it will happen again, he will like it and it shouldn't embarass you at all.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Me and my boyfriend ignore it because the science behind it actually makes it the guys fault. When a guy lifts you up during sex or puts his penis in a certain way it forces air into the vagina that comes out between strokes

  • It's normal. Just laugh it off. I think it is even a turn on for some guys when they make a girl queef. Actually, this is a good question to ask the guys on here!

  • Why be embarrassed about it as it is just air escaping from your p*ssy

    • Lol cause it sounded like a juicy fart. I was like "I swear that came from my vagina!"

    • The guy knows that and if he has ever had his penis inside another vagina I am quite sure he has heard it before.

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  • truat me it won't hurt the mood for him sex sometimes gets to seriouse and a queef at the ght moment can give you both the giggles at the right moment to trigger something wonderful. it is possible he tried to do it on pourpouse because he was trying to lighten the mood or make a joke to hear you giggle.

  • If the guy isn't making me queef then he's not doing it right :p

    • what % of guys get it right? ;)

    • Not enough :P

    • haha what about queefarific?

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  • its fine, I bet he enjoyed it anyway. It lightens the mood

  • keep queefing till you can queef no more.

    queef till its queeftacular.

    queef till its funny.

    • queeftacular lol, I think you invented a new word ;)

    • haha yes I did

    • I think I heard someone say it before, butt queeftacular should be in the dictionary. Least in the one for funnies :D

  • the problem is when he pulls out... if he pulls out a lot you'll queef more, tell him to keep it in you

    • It was just him fingering me, but still. Okay, thanks.

  • We like it. The next time you do it push it out for a bigger pop and both laugh like adolescent boys.

    • I told him I was trying to go not queefing, but now he made me do it. It's embarrassing, cause it sounded like a fart. I told him it came from my vagina ha ha