How to get over the fear of giving a handjob?

I'm years old and I want to give my guy a handjob. I've never given one before, so how can I get over this fear? and also what are some tips to make it a good one?
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i meant to say 17 years. my number lock was off and it didn't type. sorry. and I'm afraid ill freak out and not what to do, or it won't be good
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  • It will be best if you tell him you want to be down close to his penis when doing it so you can watch him come. You just go up and down, not to fast unless he tells you though a little faster as he gets closer to coming. as he is ejaculating making a kind of a "wow"ish noise, something to make him think you think it is amazing to watch wouldn't hurt. don't stop until he stops shooting and then give it a couple of nice down soft, squeeze as you come up to get it all out. You want to make it extra special, if you don't have lotion or something like that all over the head, when you squeeze some out, lick it off the head of his penis and swallow it giving an "ummm"

    You will never get rid of him...good luck

  • There is nothing at all to fear. A HJ is as safe as scratching his back.

    Almost anything you can do will be appreciated.

    Have lotion and a hand towel available.

    Use a two hand massage, sack and shaft.

    The harder he gets, the faster you stroke.

    Squeeze a little on the way up, soft hand on the way back.

    When he ejaculates, time your stroking to match his squirts, pulling as he does.

    Its almost impossible to get this wrong. except for dry-abrasion (use lotion) and squeezing to hard while he ejaculates.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I used to have that same fear. I was so nervous and wasn't exactly sure what to expect. When I actually went through with it, though, it wasn't as difficult as I thought It would be. It's just one of those things that you build up in your head until it seems so major, but trust me, just grab it and go, lol. It's going to take a while getting comfortable with, but you'll get there~

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  • You left out your age, I bet you typed your real age, then thought about changing it cause you are young, and then forgot to put in a fake one. Am I right?

    • No you moron. What is this random ass guessing game/shaming you're doing on such a young girl? Fucking weirdo.

  • Mimic how he masturbates, make eye contact and have fun with it. www.iwanttips.webs.com explains some masturbation and bj techniques that might give you some ideas. As far as the fear, I dunno.

  • I wonder if "fear-of-freaking-out-while-giving-a-handy-because-your-afraid-you're-doing-it-wrong" is listed in the DSM?

    And what would it be called?

    Freakabotchajerkaphobia?

    Just lube ub with some icy-hot with a little sand in it and go to town on him!

    He'll love it.

    • So... Thanks for the down arrow. Didn't like the freakabotcha? The out-of-the-box lube suggestion? Or just the whole lame attempt at humor?

  • What exactly are you afraid is going to happen?

    You need to fully understand the fear in order to "beat it", (so to speak).

  • im 17 also and I'm in the same problem..i never fingered a girl. people told me to just sit there and don't think, just reach for her p**** and start. Try that out, it seems like it would be scary but a few seconds into it, you'll probably forget!