How to get over the nerves of wearing lingerie?

[kittykett]

I'm gonna see my boyfriend Sunday after a month and a half apart . We are both super excited. My plan was to surprise him at the door in my pink and black lace teddy...but I'm starting to get cold feet. I've never worn lingerie before. I'm not insecure about my body but I'm pretty...conservative. Not to mention it's been a month and a half since he has seen any part of me and I'm a little nervous I'm not gonna look the same. I'm an athlete so I'm normally extremely fit but over the summer I was working and going to school so I didn't have a lot of workout time. I've been running like crazy this past week but I'm just super nervous. It's a silly question, I know, but what can I do to shake the nerves?

[DoggyDude]

Give yourself a preview. Just for your own eyes, put it on and pose for youself a litte. If your feeling brave take a few snaps of yourself. Find a pose that appeals to your own sense of a sexy look for you.

When your posing, be confident, your bound to be looking fantastic and your mans probably just bursting to see you. Keep this in your mind.

Find your favorite pose, your favorite combination of items.

Just be carefull surprising anyone at the door... more often than not it will be you that surpsied as the unexpected guest turns up with your partner. I would suggest finding a nice silk nighty or other cover so you can survey the coast is clear before revealing your lovely surprise.

You have a lucky man ^^

[kittykett]

Thanks! That's probably a good idea to cover up lol I didn't even think about that :]

[DoggyDude]

:]

[taster]

LOL! There is certainly nothing wrong with your physical appearance so leet us put that behind us...nerves are a big problem for all of us...What about a compromise? Can you put a robe or kimono or mumu over it? I would find that fetching if my lady met me at the door in a night gown or kimono...and, of course, they easily come off! btw..he will be nervous too...

[kittykett]

Why would he be nervous though?

[taster]

You think that only you would be nervous? He is human too! Why are you nervous? First time in a month-and-a-half...that is along time to be separated...and males always have performance anxiety...that goes away if we successfully perform repeatedly...

[kittykett]

Well, he never acts nervous. He's always real chill and collected. It's extremely obvious when I'm nervous.

[taster]

Oh well..there are people that act like they are chill even tho they are not...and, yes, there are some few who really are that way...but he evidently lovess you and you are a package...not part & parcel where we can accept the good & reject the bad...that is what exasperates me when people aer jealous of me...if they WERE me they get ALL of it..not just the good parts...

[kittykett]

True true...I'm guessing he wouldn't have asked me to put it on if he didn't think I would look good in it anyways lol I'm judging myself lol I just need to stop :]

[girlygirl1]

breathe in

breathe out

breathe in

breathe out

dont worry , look at the mirror and say I'm beautiful and he's going to like what he sees and really feel what your saying not just blurt out words

i know this is strange but it works :D

[kittykett]

Thanks!

[girlygirl1]

thats why it went -1 :S lol

[kittykett]

I gave you 1 back lol

[girlygirl1]

:D

[themastaplan]

smoke some weed

lol

youll look fine, I know its much harder on girls because you don't want to be 'fat" in his eyes or gain so much he'll be like wtf...look your in shape, you work out, if he isn't happy with your appearance then he has issues himself...he should love you for who you are, having a great body is a benefit, don't be so hard on yourself...keep working out if you are insecure but he should do nothing but support you and love you for the person you are

[kittykett]

Thank you!

[kheserthorpe]

Try to relax.

As soon as he sees you, his face will tell you that you look great.

[kittykett]

That's what I'm hoping for :)

[PAKMANN29]

Relax he's your boyfriend he's going to love it just go for it and don't worry ;)

[Anonymous]

Have a few drinks before he gets there, to relax you.

Wear something frumpy over the lingerie, perhaps. Like an old dressing gown. Then surprise him when you drop it to the floor.

[Anonymous]

put on your lingerie and look in the mirror, tell yourself you look hot