How to give an enthusiastic blow job?

I think I have the basics down for giving a decent BJ. I think one of the most important things is to be enthusiastic about it - to really love to give them. I want to give my boyfriend more enthusiastic BJs, but the thing I struggle with is conveying that enthusiasm? Dirty talk? Please be specific and detailed about what you think works, or what has worked for you (girls and guys). Thanks!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • When it comes to a blowjob I know what I want. It's all about attitude. You gotta want it, really want it. I want to feel like you are a starving woman, you haven't eaten anything for 3 days, you don't know when you are going to get a chance to eat again. But you are horny anyways because its been longer than that since you've had sex.
    And here it is in front of you, you're looking at my cock as a fountain of needed protein. You just gotta have it. You are going for it and you know that the more excited you get him the larger the load is going to be, so lots of moaning, dirty talk, eye contact. When your head is not bobbing up and down you are keeping its head between your lips and you are pumping it with your one hand while the other is either massaging my nuts or you are teasing my ass with a finger, working it in slowly.
    When my seed is finally released ooo big moans, asking for more, then milking it out as it softens, making sure not a drop has escaped.
    And yes swallowing is a must. If you wish to kiss afterwards, I'm ok with that. Mouth full or empty ;-)

  • When you “open up the curtains” of his zipper, his already hard “member” jumps out, proud and erect. You look at it – and you are fascinated. Look up at him from down there in a naughty “Hmmm, what did I find?” kind ‘a’ way. Now, even if a building next to you EXPLODES – you don’t give a f***. You’ve got more important things in your mouth. When it comes to great blow jobs – attitude is everything. F***that up – and no blow job technique will help you. If you need some real-life tips, check out Jack's Blowjob Lessos.

Most Helpful Girls

  • My boyfriend loves it when I unzip his pants to give him a blowjob without him having to ask for one. I tell him often I love going down there and love how big he is (it's all true, I'm not just giving him an ego boost). He loves it when I put it in my mouth and suck it without touching it with my hands, like, kneeling over it balancing my weight on my hands and bobbing my head up and down if that makes any sense haha. When I suck I also run my tounge along the head of it, and when he cums in my mouth and I swallow it. I thought I sucked at blow jobs (haha) but he says I'm fantastic :D it's all about learning what your partener likes.

  • make eye contact with him while doing it.. guys go crazy for that.. every once and a while take it out of your mouth and tell him how much you love his **** and how big it is.. tell him how much you love having it deep in your mouth.. let yourself get into it .. and if you can't get into it, at least pretend to be into it.. even play with yourself while doing it.. it will show him how much excites you doing it.. hope this helps!

    • how much it excites you*

    • Very helpful - thank you, I'll try that!

    • also, surprise him with a blowjob sometimes.. it'll show him how enthusiastic you are about pleasing him and no problem!

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  • have fun with it... there's gotta be at least one thing about it you love...feed off that

    like I love how a guy wiggles when you lick or kiss a certain spot

    • Thanks, can you give more details though? I'm a bit shy and uncreative, which is why I'm stuck. Do you just say that to him before you start?

    • i usually start by kissing his neck and working all the way down, paying extra attention to the places he wiggles or makes a sound... seeing him so excited really helps me. if you not scarred of the balls which I'm not sure why but I love it helps... just not to much there guys tend not to be able to handle it. ill just tell him what I like about what I'm doing, or his d***; and if he asks me something when my mouth is full "mhhh hmmm" which apparently feels amazing.

    • Thanks so much, I'll try those tips out!

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  • Picture it as the most amazing thing you have ever seen. Imagine it is bigger than any penis you have ever experienced and you are excited (while at the same time a little frightened that it may be painful) choke on it until you cry and then pull his ass cheeks in for some more!

    • Really - choke on it until I cry?! Haha that doesn't sound sexy to me.

    • it doesn't !? well its not suppose to be sexy to you... its suppose to be about him! hahahaha make sure you grab his hands and put them behind your head! let him know he can skull f*ck your brains out and you still want more!

    • Heh alright thanks for the suggestions :)

  • i just answered a question that kinda more suited to this question so I think ill just copy and paste lol. well from my experiences (at the receiving end ofcourse), girls tend to enjoy it and get into it more when the guy is fresh and clean down there, using a scented lotion give them that yummy effect I guess, so its not just the female that has to make a BJ great.

    • I'm not asking about what the guy can do - I'm asking what a girl can do to show the guy that she's really really into it?

  • Just suck on it and use your hand and make him pay for it ?if you give him BJ?does he get to play with your "V"?

    • I'm not asking for instructions on giving a BJ! - I'm asking how to show ENTHUSIASM.

    • Well go faster with the BJ.it should woRk

    • yeah charge him $20!

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