How to give a good handjob?

Like what areas of the penis give the most pleasure? Is it good to start off fast or slow? And do you like it when girls rotate there wrist while they're holding it?
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Most Helpful Girl

  • I won't really add much graphich details, I think the guys covered the topic pretty well. I know it might look a bit intimidating at first. It sure was for me in the beginning, it's okay. I mean how are us girls supposed to know what feels best when handling a body part we don't even have? I'd say to go slow at first. If you don't or you're too rough, it's likely to hurt the guy and it sure won't pleasure him.

    I think the most important thing - and the trickiest - is to learn what grip is right. Obviously it all depends on the guy, so I can't exactly tell you how it is. I think the safest is to go for a lighter grip for the first few times and to tighten your grip from time to time. You'll see from how he reacts what feels best to him, so you'll most definitely know how tight he likes best. Once you're set with that, then you can focus on the motion itself. I've noticed that it's better to pay a bit more attention to the head when you go up and down. I usually apply a little bit more pressure with the palm of my hand when I reach the head and when I'm about to go down. Just make sure not to squeeze or twist too much. Well I'd ever say DON'T TWIST. EVER. It usually doesn't feel that good and if you're too rough, it's gonna hurt.

    Last thing is the pace. Don't wiggle like a madwoman or it's gonna suck. Start slow and accelerate accordingly to how turned on the guy is. It might sound silly, but it's important. If you try to go too fast too quickly, it won't feel as good and it might break the mood. Besides, you don't want that to last 5 minutes only do you? :P

    • ^This female knows her stuff...+1..(:(:(:

    • Thanks dude :)

Most Helpful Guys

  • Yeah the sweet spot is on the top of the head about where the head meets the foreskin (I am circumcised) I prefer dry but some guys prefer lube and lube is definitely faster & easier. Make a circle with your thumb and one of your fingers (index for instance) and apply enough pressure to cause friction but do not squeeze...purple is probably too much..lol... (he can tell you how much pressure... some guys might like for you to traverse the whole shaft...I am certainly not one of those... use aggressive up & down movements localized in the area of the head & foreskin (imagine someone aggressively using a saltshaker) Oh..if your man likes for you to rotate your wrist...then fine..but NOBODY gonna do that to me...O:O

  • The only part that can drive him to orgasm is the gland of the penis, also called head. If he's uncircumcised, put your hand around the foreskin and use that to wrap around his penis. If he is, use lube. The most sensitive parts are where the glans goes into the rest of the penis, if he has his foreskin, it's where that is attached to the penis.

    Start out slow, increase your pace, if you see he's getting close keep doing what you're doing. Use your other hand to GENTLY play with his balls.

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  • Watching p*rn would give you an idea. the bottom near the tip is pretty sensitive. Slow works at first but you want to speed it up after a minute. If you just act like the guy's orgasm matters like kiss or say something sexy that goes a long way. My FWB certainly doesn't and it is lame as hell.

  • The tip is the most sensitive part. I love when she rubs the tip with her palm.

    Go slow and make it faster towards the climax.

    I love everything as long as she is into giving it and make me come in her mouth.

  • The gland and frenulum are most sensitive.

    On uncircumcised, grab with skin forward and roll up and down with the skin so your hand goes over the head and down the shaft. You can grip fairly tight.

    Circumcised without lube use a light tough and slide over and just under the head, rotation is good.

    Circumcised with lube same thing but you can also do full shaft thrown in.

    You can start fast if you're not going to get tired but ending fast is more important.

  • i like when someone puts their hand on my belly and slides it down my pants feeling all around, pull my d1ck uot the top of my pants reaching down caressing my balls then start strokin me , the whole shaft, undo my pants and stroke me

  • Use Lube! And I can't say for any other guys but use the whole length but focus at the head. And I guess just like for guys when pleaseing her and kinda go by the place were you get a intense reaction ;) it souldnt take but 5min max using lube

  • move from slow to a little faster, and get it a sensual for him., be and make comfortable.

  • the tip of the d*** is the most sensitive area on a penis. use lotion and twist the wrist while going up and down and to do a good job work on the head of the d***. but for super job just suck on the tip! lol

  • Just like the guy below me said, start off slow and work increase the pace after a few minutes. Guys are real sensitive for the first few minutes so you don't want him to come too soon if you have other things planned for him. Also if you want your guy to squirm with pleasure suck the tip of his penis since it's the most sensitive part. He'll love it:)