I think you need to really want it, for your muscles to be relaxed enough, so it doesn't hurt. It's the same thing as having vaginal sex for the first time. If your anxious, you'll be tight.
Lube is a must.
I only tried it once, and I wasn't ready. I was to anxious and it was really painful at the start and afterward. It was in the spur of the moment and we didn't use lube. Which I regret.
However it wasn't messy. Probably less so than vaginal sex, in a day, since there's no vaginal secretion. I guess make sure, you don#t do it, just after you had a Number 2?0 0 0 1Go to the bathroom beforehand and check with your finger if any poop is still up there before you do anal. For me with lube we rarely have problems.
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If you're worried about it being "clean" then don't do it if you haven't evacuated your bowels recently. Give yourself an enema if you're that worried about it, and the experience will be squeaky clean.
You need to be ~completely~ relaxed. My girlfriend loves it, but she can't relax enough for it if she's not at least a little drunk.
Do not go back to vaginal sex post anal without making sure his cock's had a mighty good washing.0 0 0 0The girls in p*rn do no eat early on in the day when they will be doing anal. They try to empty themselves out too. Not long before their scenes, they get an enema.
How to make it easier? Train your ass? lol Use toys and work yourself up to the size of your partners d***, and you should always use lube when you're doing that.0 1 0 0
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0 5You could take that stuff that cleans you out for a colonoscopy but that seems like a lot of work. You could try to give yourself an Enema. Lube is about the only thing that would make him go in easier. Relaxing the muscles helps too.
0 2 0 0Try cleaning out your system with the salt water flush in the morning ( link ).
0 1 0 1Push out as he pushes in. WOrks!
0 0 0 0Its a sh*t hole, its not going to be clean no matter what you do.
1 0 0 1Yes, you are going to have to take a good shower and clean yourself out with soapy fingers.
I always wear a condom for anal, and I don't really think it's that big of a deal.
As far as getting him in, it takes learning to relax, to work with each other and lube.0 0 0 0
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