How to initiate a blow job?

[Anonymous]

How should I initiate giving my boyfriend a blow job? Girls, how did you do it the first time?

[SweetVixen21]

there are a few different ways...but here are my top 3 techniques that work every time...

1.Be authoritative, when you know he is available for it, without him expecting it just go for it. push him against the wall drop his pants and go for it, look him in the eye with a sexy look so he knows how bad you want to taste him. Make sure you get into it like it's all you have been thinking about all day long. With this technique you will A) blow his mind and B) get him off faster and more explosively but only do try this is you are sincere about how bad you want him in your mouth because the more into it you are the more turned on you will be and the more he will want it and thus the better result.

2.Tease him. All throughout the day play with him, touch him in all of his sacred spots, make him crave your next touch. Once he can't take it anymore and he's rock solid, go to town on him until you feel he's getting close and then stop until he's begging you to put it back. Keep getting him to the brink of explosion and then stop before he can, then restart until you finally decide he can release. With this technique you will give him a more intense longer lasting toe curling type of orgasm.

3. Make him say the words. Start off by toying or playing around his zipper nonchalantly and hold a conversation with him about something random. While you have him talking keep working your hand until you make skin to skin contact, stroke him and play with him and keep moving closer and closer to him until you are on your knees in front of him like you are planning on giving him a bj, and all while maintaining conversation as though nothing is happening, if he asks questions just steer him back to the topic, then start to lick but not insert it yet, just lick it and get it wet then just stop, let it go and look him in the eye and ask him what he wants you to do with it, put it in your mouth and begin only when he tells you that's what he wants. It's dirty and sexy to hear your man tell you the words with this method you can both get aroused.

Enjoy!

[Asker]

Thanks :D

[dark-fox]

Wow^^, from a guys perspective the 2nd one is much sexier. =3 You must have lots of experience in the department. =)

[Anonymous]

the first time me and my boyfriend is it oh damnn
I have only had one boyfriend and im still with him today i was with him when i was 16 and im now 18 i was why at he start if the relationship after the first 2 months he started fingering me and by the third month he went down on me but i didn't do anyhing like that i was scared to even touch his dick
then in our 4 month anniversary he slept at my house and i knew i wanted to do it today but i was really scared to do it and we had conversations about this before and he said i could do it anytime i want i had his consent.. But i wanted him to tell me he wanted it so i kissed him from the belly to the top if his chest and went down again till i reached his boxer line.. By this point he started to pull his pants down cos e wanted it.. First he kept saying my name and i chickened out at this point so i started kissing up his chest again then we talked for a bit then my boyfrlend is very sarcastic and jokey so he jokingly said are you gunna suck me or not so i went down and went up again he pulled his pants down again and i started to kiss down his leg and them the other leg then i got to his balls and started kissing them then i kissed up his dick there was a lot i reason and teasing drives boys insane and eventually i sucked it.. The first few times you do t.. Its gunna be awkward but now my boyfriend doesn't have to pull his pants down no more i can safely say that i am confident to do it now but the key is to tease your boyfriend so you know he definitley wants if

[nicolerae08]

Usually after me and my boyfriend would make out for a while I would rub him outside his pants there for a while and keep making out. then he'd unzip his pants and id get down on my knees on the floor. Its best if he's sitting down because when he gets off he gets really weak and shakes and stuff. And to let him know what you wanna do while your making out you could pull away and be like I wanna taste you now. Or something. Just don't be afraid to talk dirty and be sexy. And he'll most likely just lead you right to it.

[a_random_guy]

This is an easy one: go up to him and ask him if he wants a BJ. Guys don't need foreplay, so while he might be surprised by the question, he probably won't say no.

[jacquesvol]

It usually happens after making out during/for a certain time, not out of the blue. (and not often on the first date, which would come over as too easy)

[Asker]

I know, I've gone pretty far with my boyfriend. My actual question was, how do I go about starting it up?

[Anonymous]

I'm glad you asked this question. I would like to know how guys like a girl to go about starting this...do we just go straight for it down there or what?