How to persuade a girl to give me a blowjob?

Girls, guys, I need an advice... I'm with a girl for about two and a half months now, and it's all great, sex is good, and all that but the thing I can't really get her to do a blowjob. Now I'm really into this girl, but I kinda think that if I can't make her give me head than I think I won't be able to persuade her to do anything else.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • If you haven't asked, just ask when you two are really getting into it. But it she's said no before, she might have a problem with doing it, or it might scare her. Most guys think, "Well, she's comfortable enough to have sex with me, what's wrong with a blowjob?" It can actually be a huge difference for some girls.She might also be worried about her gag reflex, which can be really embarrassing. If she's said no before, talk to her about it, in person. Ask her what she's worried about or what she doesn't like about it, try to see it from her point of view. Pressure will only make her more resistant and nervous.

  • you should never try and persuade anyone to do anything they don't want in the bedroom fastest way to ruin a relationship ... maybe it's not her thing .. maybe she's embarrassed ... let things develop at their own pace and see what occurs ... the world won't stop turning just cos you ain't getting a bj ... if you that into her then live with it for now and maybe tell her what you like and how you like it when she is more comfy with you

  • You shouldn't 'make' her do anything. Try giving her oral first and maybe she'd be more willing. If she doesn't want to, she doesn't want to. Maybe she'll come around later but it's a huge turn off when guys keep pushing it.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Dude, I don't know about you, but I had similar problem a while ago. Don't rush her, don't be a fool.. I searched the internet for the solution and found a book called Jacks blowjob persuasion, well it helped me a lot, because it made me realize what was I doing wrong all the time. And I learned how to correct that. Now I don't really have problems with any girl. So my recommendations.

  • The problem you have shows already in your wording: "make her".

    You can't make anyone do anything. But have you talked to her about it? Are you willing to give her head? A little positive encouragement can go a long way too!

    • I agree, QA sounds like an ass and a selfish moron (in bed), ha no offence.

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  • Have you tried asking her?

  • Communication is the key!

  • How often do you eat her out?

  • Have you asked her to?

  • ask but don't force it

    if she's reluctant or nervous to start with, piling on the pressure won't help

  • Dip your penis in chocolate and point it at her and say 'I got something on me, would you mind licking it off?'.

    • haha I wish my boyfriend did that!

    • that was hot srsly, I am so gonna make my boyfriend do that for me.

  • A) you can't " make " her

    B) don't put your d*** in her face. Huge turn off for someone who is reluctant

    C) give her the best oral she has ever had and hope for the best

    D) after a. b, and c, communicate your needs in a nonthreatening way

    • ^ follow the description above.

  • You can always try just gently pushing her head down towards your crotch and when she looks up at you in a sort of 'what?' way, then just smile and ask for a bj.

  • You need to tell her that it's important to you, and you should find out why she is reluctant.

  • MONEY