How to pop her cherry without hurting her?

[Anonymous]

Me and my girlfriend have decided that we are ready to move to the next stage in our relationship and have sex. We are both virgins. I heard that it hurts for a girl to lose her virginity. How do I take her virginity and have sex with her without hurting her? We have condoms and all that stuff. Guys or girls answers are appreciated, especially if you have experience with this. Thanks everyone.

[Anon-ymous1]

You aren't a virgin. Boys aren't virgins.

Anyway, just do a lot of foreplay. A lot of cuddling first and even then like gently, GENTLY use your fingers on her first, lightly, LIGHTLY stroking her outer pussy lips and stuff before you actually fuck her, to make sure she's wet enough. If she's not wet enough, don't do it yet. She needs to be ready. And yeah, it may hurt for her no matter what. Or it may not. There's no way to know without actually doing it.

[Anon-ymous1]

Thanks for MHO

[jacquesvol]

You might want to read what I answered here: Losing ur virginity how painful it is guys? ↗

[emuumi]

It really depends on girl some don't hurt at all, some hurt no matter what, but making sure she's properly wet and as relaxed as she can. If she's tense there's a bigger chance it hurts

[maxcates]

Lots of foreplay and lube.

[Anonymous]

Keep the foreplay long enough.