How to spice up the sex life in BED?

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Most Helpful Guys

  • The popular reply here is to watch porn together. However, there is more to it than simply watching it together.

    You need to pay close attention to her body language while she is watching it. You will notice her reaction to some things she is seeing will be different than to some things she is uncomfortable with.

    The things she shows an interest in are things you may want to say something like, "Wow, that must feel really good" and stop talking and let her have a chance to reply. If she verbally replies she will tell you in her own way if she agrees or not into it. If she does not verbally reply then watch her body language. Did your comment have her considering it? Or did it make her feel uneasy as she is not into doing that with you or anyone else...

    Another way i found to keep our sex life interesting is to have sex away from home. I have owned 4x4 pickups and a jeep for years. Sex in the woods on an old logging two track is always interesting. Bring bug spray lol

    Does she suck your cock while going down the road? How about having her do that while traveling on an interstate highway... She just may find it fun to have a semi truck driver see what she is doing and let lose on his air horn. I have been with a few women who would always giggle or laugh when this happened. if you do this make sure you are high enough above the road so people in cars can't see her sucking your cock, especially children. And regular traffic vehicle owners may report you guys to the police as they may find it offensive. I have yet to find a semi truck driver that did! lol

    Have sex in the garage or in the back yard at night. Fuck her in the kitchen while she is cooking you a meal. This works best when she is wearing a bathrobe as it is pretty easy to slip into her without much warning.

    What i am saying is you need to do things different than what you are now doing. Be creative. One of the most memorable sexual times I had with my ex wife was as he was walking through the bedroom doorway one morning while in her bathrobe I had a hard on and stopped her by gently grapping her waist, lifting up her bathrobe and fucked her in the doorway till i came. She welcomed it as she bent over and spread her legs and stood there without saying a word till I was done. Then she asked if i wanted my eggs scrambled... like it never happened. Well, other than that little smirk on her face...

    It doesn't have to be real creative. It needs to be enjoyable for both.

  • From your replies to other opinions, it seems like your focus in sex is very physical.

    For better sex, focus on lovemaking, focus on satisfying your wife more, bringing her to the next level of orgasmic pleasure (s).

    When you do this, you engage in "brain sex, and will have better connections and intimacies with your wife.

    Both your sex life will become better.

Most Helpful Girls

  • We don;t know what you're doing now, so how would we suggest what else to do? We also have no idea what kinds of things you like.

    • LMAOOOOOOO YOUR ANSWER IS SO NOT ANSWERABLE

    • I like dirty nasty but wife doesn't... So she likes plain and simple... So can we spice it up... She doesn't like dirty...

    • I have no idea what counts as dirty to her.

  • Watch porn together, play sexy games, try new positions, try to places, use toys, use food etc.

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  • Rent out a Porn, dude. xx

    • It's Fun, hun. lolxx

  • Put music on like Migos and Drake walk it like I talk it

  • To LEAVE the bed in the first place.

  • Try role-playing. Wear costumes and stuff...

  • consentual non consent. it works with anything everytime

  • Jalapenos, habaneros, ghost peppers, salsa XD hope this helps you smile at least

  • I think I heard of this before from some book, but one way is trying something unorthodox. Have her wear your boxer and you wear her bra and panties.