Open your mouth and say, "I'm a virgin." It's not like he wasn't a virgin at some point too. The first guy I slept with was 4 years older than me too and had more experience and I just told him I was virgin and he just made sure to go extra slow and make sure I was comfortable. Chances are he probably won't care and he'll like that you chose him to be your first. Every girl I know doesn't have a horror story of losing their virginity whether it was to their boyfriend or a guy they barely knew. Some have stories about how afterward they wished it had happened differently (bad break ups, guy turned out to be a jerk, found someone later that they wish had been their first instead etc.) but as for the actual act of letting a guy know they were a virgin and having that guy take their virginity no horror stories.
If anything it's the other way around, I wouldn't be too thrilled if it's the other way around where the guy was the virgin and the girl had more experience, it's confusing down there. My friend was dating a virgin last year and I offered to send her an anatomy textbook, some instructional porn, and a sticker with an arrow that said "insert here." She said it was a little rocky at first but he got the hang of it eventually.0 0 0 0Wow, this is the same exact thing I am going through right now! Sorry I can't help
0 0 0 0just tell him!it shouldnt bug him unless he's all about 'the pussy'
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Why do girls always think being a virgin would be a negative? Most guys think it's a positive. It means 1) you appreciate him more than any other guy you've ever met and 2) you're nearly guaranteed to be clean of any STDs. Virgins are great, if guys had their way every girl out there would be a virgin. There's a reason why Muslims dream of a heaven with 50 virgins. :D :D :D
So stop stressing and just tell him you've never been with anybody and I'll almost guarantee your stock will shoot up.1 0 0 0Yeah... he's much more experienced because that's what guys do... right? I'll let you in on a little guy secret. Maybe he's a virgin too. Well, maybe he's not but... he wouldn't admit it. Hell, it's not even cool for 16 year olds anymore. If you aren't getting laid the moment you have a hard on you're a 40 year old virgin, right? You should just bring it up in private and then... if he's a virgin too... be a really good girlfriend and LIE.
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2 4If he's decent and worth it, he won't care . . :)
0 0 0 0If he's very experienced, you won't freak him out. Just tell him.
0 0 0 0just tell him straight up. if he cares or is freaked out then he's not worth being with.
0 0 0 0Just tell him straight up if you to are close you should be able to tell that your a virgin, its a good thing your a virgin be proud you are an not a sl*t, there's nothing to be embarrassed about babe...
1 1 0 0take a sec to think about the context of the conversation in which that would arise... and you'll find your answer
0 0 0 0im a virgin too, who cares just tell him... and hey, most guys love the thought of being with a virgin. being a virgin is a plus for guys and girls
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