How to tell if he has an erection?

sometimes when I watch movies and cuddle with my boyfriend he breaths quite fast through his mouth and his heart beat sounds kinda fast, is that because he is turned on? he has never made a sexual move on me.
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  • He has the hots for you, why not gently put your hand on his penis area, and a gentle squeeze, trust me he might be a little shy or unsure, his heart is telling you something, act on it. why not take the bull by the horns in a private place ask him straight out, would you like me to give you a ahnd job, and just do it, cmon you know this is what this is all bout. go for it, and if he blows his load too soon, say well I am sure I can get you to do that again, we men are sometimes silly sods, and scared, as I am sure you can be. have fun eh. take your time as well.

    • im not ready to touch it we have only been together 2 months and haven't even kissed properly

  • Not sure "being turned on"necessarily means having an erection. In year scenrio of watching movies, I do think you get him sexually excited and probably his trying hard to control not having sexual advance sat you is causing all those "vital signs". But don't get him into sex if he has the will to abstain. Nothing like it if you wait till after getting married.

    • I don't think he is waiting for marriage he isn't religious, he's just inexperienced with girls..

    • That confirms why he gets all those signs.

Most Helpful Girls

  • his penis will get hard and stuck up usually! he may just be turned on but not to the point of erection!

  • maybe he's panting with desire or maybe he's hyperventilating ! proceed with caution. lol.

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  • He probably doesn't have an erection, but it would be quite common for his heart rate to spike a little bit when being touched by a girl he finds attractive (you).

  • If he is your boyfriend he probably gets turned on whenever you are in close proximity i.e. cuddling, hugging and kissing. He probably hasn't made a move cause he is waiting for your OK. Chances are that he's wanted to make a move since day one, but has held off so you could be more comfortable and so that it isn't all physical but emotional as well for the both of you.

    • he hasn't even tried to make out yet

  • Just touch it, he will like that, it feels good when a girl does that.

    • im not rady to do that

    • you never will until you do it

  • you can feel it through his trousers, just stroke him on his crotch.

  • Could be having an Asthma attack from fear of commitment :/

    That ruined my first and only relationship when we leant in and I had a brief spasm ^^; (She was gone, and so were my shoes when I came too D:)

  • It might be the amphetamines he smoked earlier on just kicking in.

  • lol his penis gets hard and sticks out of his pants. it kind of looks like there is a tent in his pants or a pole coming out of his groin area.. its pretty hard to miss

    • but he puts his legs up so I can't see... plus doesn't the penis lay flat against his stomach if he's lying down?

    • lol no it hangs between the legs unless he's upside down it doesn't touch his stomach plus when its hard it sticks stright out, not laying against anything unless its flipped up in the waste band but really if you can't see it there are no ways to tell other then feeling for it lol

    • well with my last boyfriend his penis would lay flat up againt his stomach not stand straight up

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