How to tell if I'm pregnant?

OK, for starters I am too scared to get a pregnancy test because I don't want my parents finding out until I know for sure. I have had every single symptom and am getting scared to death. If I am pregnant I would be about 13 weeks along now showing signs of an abdomen growing and had the nausea, dizziness, tiredness, mood swings, breast tenderness and back aches. I've had it all and I don't know what to do! any advice would be greatly appreciated! HELP ME!
Tell parents
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Go to the doctor
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Get a pregnancy test then tell parents if its pos. not neg.
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  • Get a pregnancy test. If you are scared that your parents will find out get it without them knowing or ask a friend to buy one and like take it in a public bathroom so that there is no evidence for your parents to find. The sooner you find out the better because if you decided to get an abortion or anything it has to be pretty soon before it's too late. Your parents might not find out if you get rid of the baby but if you keep it then they will definitely find out. I'd die if I was pregnant right now because my parents would disown me but it's your choice, your baby, and your life so choose wisely.

  • You can actually psych your body out and have pregnancy symptoms without actually being pregnant. You can go see your dr, and legally he can not tell your parents about the visit. This is the most reliable way. You can also just buy a pee stick, perhaps take it at a friend's house? Just make sure the trash gets thrown away somewhere away from either of your parents. (Put it in a plastic bag and toss at a gas station?)

  • Take a damn test! Don't put things like this off! The sooner you know, the better! If you are THAT concerned then you need to reassure yourself. Your parents are going to find out sooner or later, anyway, if it turns out you really are pregnant. Please don't let fear interfere with your health, both physical and mental.

Most Helpful Guy

  • get a pregnancy test, if it comes up negative, just throw it away in the trash before the garbage truck comes (not in your house's trash, the outside one).

    But, ya, don't have sex if you aren't ready for the consequences tbh or too scared about what your parents would think.

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  • Oh no! You're a mom! Now... just tell the future dad that he's gonna have to step up and be responsible and go to des appointments with you AND marry you (yes marry you). Good luck, being a mom probably isn't the worse thing there is. You're gonna need your lover's support any which way this goes from here on out.

    Get all the physical, emotional /mental support you can get. However, be sure to pray and meditate so that you're happy and excited, not worried or panicky/anxious.

    • I'm not a mom ...yet but I would think that's how pregnant women go about it. Oh and take chilbirthing and parenting seminars/ classes too, that would probably help =)

  • Yup sounds like your prego. Sucks for you lol