How would you react if somebody raped your boyfriend or girlfriend?

How would you react if somebody raped your boyfriend or girlfriend?
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So far I've had some violent answers from the guys. The girls don't seem to be as angry.
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  • "According to the Australian Bureau of Statistics (ABS) 99% of sexual offences are committed by men, and 79% of adults who are subjected to sexual violence are women.

    ONE IN THREE women are sexually assaulted in their lifetime. The incidence of sexual violence against women with disabilities is at least 4 to 10 times higher than that occurring within the nondisabled population."

    - from a website I found

    WTF ARE YOU GUYS THINKING?

    This makes me so angry.

    My girlfriend has been raped and sexually assaulted numerous times. See my post on it on this link

    Unfortunately I can't find out who they were to do anything about it. This makes me very frustrated. I can't do anything except comfort her

    I just read a story where a rapist was tied naked to a post on a busy street with a sign saying rapist. An angry mob developed and beat him to death. The police arrived 7 hours later (after peak hour traffic had all seen him) to find witnesses saw nothing. Nobody in the mob was identified or charged :)

    • Imagine if someone tied a naked prostitute to a post on a busy street with a sign saying "Whore", and a horny mob developed and raped her senseless. Police arrive 7 hours later and witnesses saw nothing. Are you still going to respond in the same smarmy and self-righteous manner? I would imagine so. "The rapist deserved it." argument is tantamount to "The hooker was asking for it." Once you justify mob retribution for one crime, it's a simple matter to condemn other types of criminals.

  • I'd try to comfort my Girlfriend and tell her everything is going to be fine. I would love to go kill the bastard but unfortunately it's illegal and anyone who's watched CSI knows that the cops always have ways of digging up the evidence.

    I'd just try to comfort and support my GF, and hope to God she doesn't start hating all men (including me) after the traumatic event.

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  • if my boyfriend was raped by another guy (cuz I don't believe a girl can rape someone, she doesn't have anything to rape with!) id be devastated for him, be there for him and reassure him that its okay and that I don't think any less of him and go on a crazy man hunt to castrate the rapist who'd dare do that to my boyfriend!

    • Best female answer :)

    • thank you :') , just because he's a guy doesn't mean he's strong all the time (my boyfriend isn't strong to begin with bless him :P )

    • haha :'L

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  • I would probably make sure he was locked up for good...and then make sure he got raped in prison. Despite the fact that I would initially want to kill him..I can't always act on what I feel.

  • id deck the person that did it because I wouldn't want anyone to hurt the person I love at all

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  • I don't think anyone could rape him, trust me.

    He'd rape them first and then kill them.

    • That wasn't the question

    • Well you asked what my reaction would be, my reaction would be him coming home and going, "I need to hide this body" "Alright, let's go."

  • If it was a woman, I'd bash her head in. If it was a man, I'd seduce him and bite his d*** off. And either way, I'd be there for my boyfriend in any way I could.

  • I would be there for my boyfriend and I'd go after the person who did that to him =_= nobody messes with my man.

  • ever sen last house on the left? id paralize them from the neck down cut them 100s of times then put their head ina microwave; now if that's not justice I don't know what is...

  • I've always thought of myself as being smart enough to pull off a perfect crime and not get caught. That's all I need to say :)

  • First, I would convince her not to talk to the police. I would then wait a couple years, and keep track of where he goes and what he does, and develop a plan. Once the time was right, I would abduct him and take him to a remote area nearby, and beat him to death with a large rock, smash his teeth, burn his finger tips, and but his body up and bury the parts where they won't be found. Then I would never tell anyone.

    • this the best answer. my kind of man.

    • i agree but f*** waiting a couple of years!

    • Waiting a couple of years ensures you are no longer a prime suspect. Even without a body, there is still the missing person issue. Gotta cover your ass in every way possible.

  • I have to say I would have the same desires towards the rapist as suavaye. The only thing is no jury would ever let me off as only giving the rapist his just due. That's the only reason I wouldn't do anything to him except do everything possible to get him arrested and convicted.

  • I would want to kill him, just that. Probably I wouldn't do it, but I'd think of it everyday.

  • well... id try to get help as soooon as possible... if it was in the past id get help but if it was recent id look for someone to hurt the do-er !

  • I would go shopping for extra shotgun ammo.

  • I would set up a decoy on craigslist and invite him to it, and then I will stick my penis in his butt. While tazering him.

  • Get an aluminum baseball bat and call my uncle Viney and Alfredo and go after the bastered.

  • I'd murder the bitch who has the balls to rape my wife. I'd put my gun to his head and make him put his mouth on the curb and stomp the back of his head till is completly smashed. Then p*ss on his dumb worthless ass.

  • id f***ing murder the prick!

  • id probably kill him

  • Im going through this situation now, my Girlfriend was raped at college but there is nothin I can do.. she lives in Missouri and live in Georgia. I'm really tempted to go to her college just to be there for her.. but at the moment all I can do I comfort her over the phone and Skype.. and it makes me feel bad because I can't physically be there to help her. I have so much anger towards the situation.. but I don't let her see that.. and what makes it worse is that yesterday she found out she has contracted chlamydia from the attackers...

  • I'd rape and casterate him. Take his dignity like he took hers, take his testicles so his evil urges never return. Hopefully he'll kill himself after this has been done to him, it'd be 10 times the satisfaction knowing I've destroyed his life to the point he'd took his own life rather than me taking it myself

    • It's this kind of sadism that motivates most rapists. And it's the anger of his family and friends that leads to your subsequent castration and inevitable retaliatory violence.

    • you are no better than the rapist whom took your girlfriend's dignity. Absolute trash.

  • i would be pissed off, and I'll be there for him and support him and listen to him

  • I'd try to get the police and legal system to deal with him. If they failed, I would arrange for something Really Bad to happen to him where I have a perfect alibi.

    We have a problem with home invaders where I live. I am armed and have a place to dump the body where it will not be found for years.

  • Cry a lot. Be angry that I wasn't able to stop it from happening. Help him in any way I can.

    • Cry alot? Seriously? OK I'm a girl and even to me cry a lot seems like kind of a pathetic thing to do, its not like you were the one who was raped it was him, youd have to be strong wouldn't you? Crying is silly. I don't cry, ever.

    • It's because I care about him and if he got hurt like that, it would devastate me... That's like saying I shouldn't cry if he got into a car accident and lived. Oh, he only broke an arm, so there's no reason to be upset, right? No. He's my best friend. His pain affects me.

    • Yeah but he's the one with the reason to cry. You crying wouldn't be helping him in any way.

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