How are you supposed to react to a guys boner ?

Me and my boyfriend were making out, and it was starting to get kind of fiery. Then he stops and tells me he has a boner. Its never happened to be before and I wasn't sure how to react so I just said "okay" :') hahaha any way is there a normal or better way to respond to that?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Tell him, "mmmm, I can see that.." Then rub it just a little over his pants. Soft at first then nice and slow and hard. But not too hard. See how it feels for both of you. Since you're still a new couple, you're going to be exploring your pleasure and limits. Boners are a normal part of life. Nothing either of you need to be embarrassed by. I love the way they feel!

  • It sounds like he is letting you know he is ready for you to either touch it, stroke it with your hand, or even that he is ready for you to suck it. Do what you feel comfortable with, but he is letting you know he is ready to go to the next level.

  • Pretty much the same way a guy reacts when I'm going braless and he notices, if I like what I see I'll tell him so.

Most Helpful Guys

  • haha kind of weird for him to point it out but next time just say something like yeah I could feel it.. it doesn't sound like you guys are to the point where you are sexually active so don't rush into it

  • Take it as a compliment, you have got him hot for you, and stroking it a little wouldn't hurt, but don't do to much with it unless a sexual act is to follow, because guys don't like to be teased,x

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  • You pull it out and begin fondling and sucking it. Either suck him off or just get him ready to f*ck you and let him have. it.

  • Give him a blow job.

    • hahhaha you would give this advice, love it! :)

  • Suck his di'ck?

    • Yea, we've only been dating for 2 weeks. Don't want to be just one of those girls. :)

    • best answer

    • Really? He is your boyfriend after only two weeks?

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  • Please don't listen to those girls Because that is NOT what you wanna do just be like " Yeah, I can feel it :) "

  • Perfect excuse to have sex, or give him a bj or a hj

    • Maybe that's what he's hoping?

    • Exactly! It's a win win situation

    • yes that's rights

  • Pet it.

  • since you want to take things slow, react and laugh, giggle at him and say "oh I see, nice" in a flirty seductive voice

  • i mean it's there. he's into it, I guess there isn't much else to it.

  • So you're getting plenty of advice to stroke it or suck it, so I won't add to it. I'm just going to ask, what do you plan to do next time?

    • I honestly have no idea hahaha

    • Did you feel it at all the last time? Either with your hand or against your body? How was it?

  • Let your pet woodpecker out of the cage and watch it poke that wood.

  • Point and laugh

  • you sit on it and grind or you pull his pants down and blow him or you stick your hand down his pants and start stroking it

  • how old are you and how old is he?

    • yea I don't know why is says in 1-24. I'm 16 and he's turning 18 soon

    • lol oh OK I see your both very young...i was shocked when my date got a boner and I'm 24 lol...the reason why I was shocked is because I've never had a guy so crazy for me lol

    • Hahaha yea :') in all honesty it was a little compelemting if that's weird