Hugging with a boner ??

[Anonymous]

OK basically girls what do you think when you hug a guy and he has a boner and you feel it against you ? and guys, any tips to not let it show as much when you hug a girl and you have a boner ?

[SplendorInTheGrass]

if its not someone I'm sleeping with or dating then I'm grossed out. I don't want to feel your penis on me if we are not in an intimate situation. that's like very off putting to me. it has happened to me before though! very annoying. in the most inappropriate situations too.

if I'm in the middle of trying to have a serious conversation and I see like a guy I'm sleeping with/dating having a boner it is NOT a turn on for me anyways. it lets me know that your mind isn't where it should be - listening to me.

what do you mean hugging? like lingering hug or just a quick random hug? if we are just friends its odd either way. it depends on like the context otherwise. like I said are we hugging to be intimate or just like hugging while doing something normal, to be friendly, etc.

[Anonymous]

Well it depends on who I am hugging. If I have a crush on the guy or he is my boyfriend then I'd feel sort of surprised, but I would like it. It has happened to me before and I got all tingly and horny. And if he wants or we are alone then I'd probably touch him though his pants or grind against him (that is yet again dependent on location, mood, etc.) . And well from my experience it will be pretty hard to hide. If you are wearing baggy/loose pants, it will be more obvious, jeans tend to hide it best, but we (us girls) can still tell :P

[uNBaLance]

It's a little awkward if he's just a friend (but I won't hold it against him).

It's weird if it's someone you barely know.

It's flattering and kind of hot if it's someone I am sexually attracted to.

If I don't want you like that and you keep pressing against me, trying to prolong the hug, I am going to avoid whenever possible in the future, you creep.

[jedkawil]

Never happened before but I would feel really bad if I hugged a girl I liked and knew she felt my boner and didn't want to hug me anymore. I would rather a conversation about it and back to regular hugs.

[yengesi]

Well, my tip is maybe you need to practice your technique. Unless you're hugging her in a situation where a boner is expected then you probably shouldn't be hugging her in a way that puts your crotch against her anyway.

[yourdadsnitemare]

Yes! like once, this girl and I were making out for the first time, and she was so gorgeous, I couldn't help my boner, and I'm not sure if she felt it, because it would be extremely awkward if she had.

[shortiemcblonde]

I mean i know it’s not their fault so I don’t really care

[hugytd]

friend = little awkward. no biggie happens to all guys

love interest = mmm. givee me more.

[Confidenceoverload]

never had a hug so I don't know or kiss sooooooooooooo

[Anonymous]

If he's hot I get nervous and confused.
If he's ugly or I don't like him then I'll be angry and disgusted.

[Anonymous]

If I like him I wouldn't mind😏

[Anonymous]

How do you get a girl to even give you the light of day?

[Anonymous]

Depends on who the guy is. If I'm hugging my boyfriend and he has a boner it's a total turn on. I'll give his ass a good squeeze/grope since I know that's what he likes. If I'm hugging a male friend who happens to have an erection... well, awkward moment but I'll ignore it and forget it 5 minutes later. Whatever. It happens.