Humping a girl's butt cheeks?

I have a new girlfriend and the other day after I ate (and rimmed) her to orgasm, I humped her butt cheeks and came all over her. I have done this with other gfs but she seemed shocked by this and a bit disgusted. Am I abnormal for doing this?
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Update: the reason I did it was that she was exhausted from the orgasm.
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  • I don't think it's abnormal. I've done it with partners, and personally, I enjoy the feeling of my partner's penis rubbing against my anus. Perhaps it was something she's never done before or didn't expect, but being shocked or disgusted seems a bit extreme.

    That said, remember that good communication is key to a healthy and happy sexual relationship, and if you did something that she was shocked and disgusted by, then it suggests that you didn't bother to find out if she was okay with it or not. A simple, "Is this okay?" can go a long way to ensure that both partners are fine with what's going on.

  • It's not abnormal, but after oral sex, why didn't you just put it in her vagina? Maybe that's what she was expecting.

    • She was flat out exhausted from the orgasm. She wasn't moving. I was hoping that she would start to move around after I was humping her but she didn't move hardly at all. She moaned a bit so I thought she was OK with it.

  • sooo...you digging your face in her genitals-no biggie. but humping-OMG WTF. seriously?

    • That is what I thought. I understand I got a lot of semen on her neck and back but I cleaned it off. I thought she would have appreciated the fact that I didn't make her do anything to finish me off because she was so exhausted.

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  • This activity is referred to as a "buttjob" or "assjob" or "butt grind" or "hot dogging" (because the sausage is between bums).

    This activity is very normal, and I must say, I often prefer this to intercourse because if "feels so silky smooth good" on a finely-shaped ass.

    Just to a web search for "assjob" and you will see so, e of it.

    I love it.

  • I'm not surprised, really. Most women expect a man to try to stuff his c*ck into her p*ssy, not to rub it frantically between her asscheeks. Being that it's certainly not what ~she~ wanted or expected, I'd say it's reasonable to assume that she didn't derive any pleasure from it, thus the shock and disgust.

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  • I don't think so, but hey different strokes for different folks right?

  • That sounds kind of hot...my ass is probably too little, though. But..hmm..

    .no I don't think that sounds too out there. I've heard crazy things...

    • But definitely talk to her about it...if she felt uncomfortable.

  • No one has ever done this to me but I don't think its shockingly abnormal.

  • doesn't sound abnormal. you prob just surprised her. and look at it this way no other guys have done that to her before! your the first!

  • Done it. Don't know how common it is. Next to being _in_ her somewhere, its the best 'external' form of stimulation to me.