Well actually , if iam going to talk about myself .. it 's pretty hard to get an orgasm depending on just your boyfriend , you have to do it by yourself , my boyfriend 's very good in bed .. he goes for long , he 's fast and strong and everything you can imagine but it 's only about your timing .. you should try masturbation with some dildo, control the speed and use your other hand to rip .. you should be really into it like sometime you 're really horny (According To what you said you should be) .. and you should know it 's not about cumming it 's just about having the feeling of an orgasm ..
THE IMPORTANT PART IS :
when you have sex with your boyfriend atfer that you should rip yourself while you 're having sex it 's going to be harder to get one than masturbating .. I wish I helped .. but if you don't get a result out of that I can recommend seeing a doctor ..0 0 0 0What do you mean by "rip" myself?
It 's "RuB" I'm sorry
Okay, that sounds better. lol Thank you for the advice!
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. A lot of women have this problem, it's a lot harder for women to orgasm than for men. I would list some helpful tips but I actually wrote an article on here that goes into a lot more detail than I could mention in this little text box. It's kind of long but if you have the time you should read it: link
It goes into a lot of the physical AND mental aspects of a woman's orgasm so maybe it will help you. I've tried all that it mentions and I don't have any problems coming. If you get a chance, give it a read, I hope it helps:)1 0 0 0Thank you so much! I truly appreciate it! I will definitely read it. (:
No problem! I really hope it helps:)
I will let you know if it does! Thank you. (: Do you mind if I message you if I end up having questions after reading it?
nothing , some men either don't know what they are doing or you haven't done something that works. If I were you I would try a vibrator.
0 0 0 0I've tried a vibrator but it never manages to help me climax. /:
Try a rabbit vibrator or a hitachi magic wand
What's a rabbit vibrator? I have a bullet.
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A lot of girls don't come from penetrative sex, it's more likely for a girl to come from clitoral stimulation... Through oral or grinding (done correctly of course) Again this doesn't work for every girl. You need to go through a checklist, including clitoral stimulation, shallow penetration, deep penetration and maybe 'finding your g-spot' I could go into far too much depth, but all I can be bothered typing right now is just mix things up since what you're doing obviously isn't working. Personally I don't just do foreplay then plough through sex, I might go through a long foreplay start to have sex, tease a bit throughout, stop and give her oral if she's getting a bit distracted. Oh and when you reach orgasm you'll definitely know there's a big difference between feeling good and orgasm...
0 0 0 0Okay, I'll talk to my boyfriend and tell him to mix it up a bit! Thank you!
No problem, if you want more advice you can message me some time... I'm just a bit tired at 3:35am
Okay, thank you! (:
Everything is O.K. with you. Focus on clitoris in the beginning. During intercourse well come clitoral stimulation by hand. Women second orgasm experience easier and faster. A little meditation at the beginning then cunnilingus. At the end of cunnilingus, clitoris sucking most women brought to orgasm. Tantra is the best for female and male orgasm.
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link0 0 0 0Okay, great! Thank you for the info! (:
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0 0 0 0You're not alone, and definitely not the worst. I'm 20 and have been sexually active for 4 years, a few different guys, and still no orgasm lol. I heard that you should pay attention to your clit as well when having an intercourse
0 0 0 0I'm glad I'm not alone. /: && I'll try to focus on that, thank you! (:
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