I'm 5'4" and my boyfriend is 6'2". What are some good sex positions for us?

The height difference can make things a little awkward,I'm just wondering what might be some good positions to try.Also sex can be a bit sore for me sometimes because I'm pretty small and tight and he is quite big.What are some positions that would be more comfortable for me?
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  • In terms of being awkward, just use pillows and move his legs around. Like if you want to do doggy, he'd need to have his legs as wide as possible to get lower.

    In terms of being sore, depth and tightness are two different things. If you want it to feel less tight, aim for positions where your legs are wide apart, not close together. In terms of depth, positions where he can't get the base of his penis right up to you are good. I enjoy woman on her stomach, but its not very deep. Avoid (or limit) positions where your knees are near your chest as they allow very deep penetration - i.e. missionary with your legs pulled up or over his shoulders, doggy where your chest is on the bed, etc.

  • How about him sitting on the bed leaning his back against the wall/headboard and you sitting on his hard-0n facing him. Missionary is also good since the disparity in your heights is most likely that his legs are longer than yours.

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  • I have the same problems with my tall bf...me on top works well, missionary still works but he has to support his weight so I'm not smothered, doggy style works but not on a level surface, I have to be on the bed and him standing up, and sideways spooning works pretty good too...you can do pretty much any position just alter them slightly, use pillows or whatever to make it more comfy

  • you on top is good. And try to use lots of foreplay first, and even orgasm first if you can, because that helps loosen the muscles. I am the same, small and tight. But I realized that when I'm more ready, aka aroused, then everything fits inside easily and no pain.

  • There's a full foot's difference between me and my boyfriend, so I can assure you it can work. Avoid doggy, cowgirl helps cos it's shallow and you can control, also shallow missionary and sideways :)

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  • He could carry you around like a barrel :p

  • I really don't know how to explain it in English , but I will try , you have the doggy style , you can be on top , and if he is able to lift you up and do it to you while he s standing it would be nice , and I think you can lay on be and put your feet on his shoulders legs on his body and he will do it correctly :)

    gd luck .

  • cowgirl is the most common for shorter gfs and taller bfs

  • well my boyfriend is 6'2 and half and I'm 5'6 just taller than you bout 2 inches and I think there is no problem we can do all the position we want..just be confident girl you don't have to worry bout your height :)