I'm afraid of getting a blowjob, how can I get past my fear (bite off my penis)?

I am afraid of receiving fellatio because there is always the possibility that the girl who is pleasuring me will be insane and bite off my d***. How can you trust someone that much? You're putting the most important part of your body in the sharp jaws of someone else. It would be child's play to sever a penor with your teeth. Comfort me, Misc.
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  • I'm thinking maybe you had something happen to you in your past where you might have some trust issues. I may be wrong but that's what I'm getting from your question. Anyway, have you ever had a BJ? I'm not a guy, but the reaction I get from men when I do it is PRICELESS! As a woman, I let men go down on me and I could freak out and think they might want to do something crazy like bite another important part of my body off. But the way I see it is...you should be spending a lot of time with someone to make sure they are not crazy and when you feel comfortable enough with their character, you will feel comfortable enough to give them your body. I think all this just means you're not a man whore...lol. Congrats! But I think it also means you want something serious before you let a woman touch your body which is cool too.

  • i think your issue is your trust in general, maybe wait until you have a longstanding trusted girlfriend that you know and love. believe me... very VERY few girls would ever do this.. if any. she would have to be a major sadist or psychopath, in which case I don't think she would waste time engaging in a relationship simply to bite someones d*** off. a normal person would not do this simply because of the repercussions. Its simple psychology, but I understand phobias are usually irrational, so I would say find someone you trust and take it slow. maybe get a woman experienced in blowjobs, to avoid any accidents. (ex. teeth grazing you which could cause fear)

    be open, good luck :)

  • I've always wondered this too... why so many guys are open to blowjobs when they can easily be bitten. But I've also heard there are some guys who like some light grazing with the teeth as long as there's no biting. But I don't know from experience. Great question!

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  • It's really not your most important part of your body if you are not going to use it properly...now if you said you can't stop eating hamburgers and you were worried about heart disease, that's a different story.

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  • watch p*rn...they have at least 20 min of straight *ick sucking. That'll probably get you hot and bothered enough to take a chance.

  • Sounds kinda trolly to me

    • Maybe, maybe not... I was kinda the same way. Guys value their tools above almost everything else.

    • And yet you want them all the time seems awful contridictory

    • Not trolling.

  • Trust! Spend a good amount of time with whoever and get to know her before you shove your d*** in her mouth. If she seem physo, don't do it.

  • LOL! I'm pretty sure you will be fine. It's pretty rare for women to become cannibals and bite off people's d***s for one. And for two if you feel even a bit of teeth you can tell her to stop. Just try it and after it's done I'm sure you will feel more comfortable about this situation lol.

    • YOUR XPER IS OVER 9000!

    • What's your point sir?

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  • Just remember this one thing and you will be alright... Lady's first. You take care of her and she will take care of you. ;) get your self a blow job. If its any comfort of all the times I have given a blow job never once did it cross my mind to bite it at all let alone off. Now whether I have ever thought of going all "Lorena Bobbit" on a guy is a different story. I have yet to do it though just thought about it.

  • i don't hink you have to worry about that. its a pretty rare occurrence and generally only happens when you do something hella f***ed up like beat a women up or rape her. it would be a f***ing disgusting thing to do and you would have to make a girl madder than hell to want to do that, even then I feel like a women is more likely to cut your d*** of than bite it of, who wants a bloody cut off d*** in their mouth. unless you sleeping with a psyco cannibal I don't think its gunna happen

  • hahahahaha whoever you are...you are awesome

  • Watch the movie "Teeth"

  • i know I'm not a guy, but I have imagined the same exact thing if I were a guy.

  • you can't be serious asking this question?

    • oh yes baby, I am being serious. it is a RATIONAL fear. why is it so difficult to understand?

  • LMAO!, even most virgin guys are not this pathetic

    • lmao virgin... ha ha virgin ha ha virgin ha ha funny hahah virgins are funny ha ha you are right virgnis are pathetic hahah guys who aren't virgins are cool. haha what a retard you are. how am I supposed to take you seriously? everybody knows guys who f*** ugly/average girls are pathetic. unless you've f***ed a hot girl before, virgins are superior to you. you exactly know it... don't try to deny it.

    • Wow, I sympathized with you until I saw this; you think that a man's worth is based on the objective attractiveness of the women that he's engaged in sex with?

  • You think your d*** is the most important part of your body? Wait till you lose your eyesight,hearing,speech or limbs. I'm sure your view will change then.

    • Hearing = not as important, limbs = not as important, speech = not as important. The only thing more important than my d*** = my eyesight/my brain

  • Best question of the day!

    • WAHHH! I can't get the image out of my head.

    • Lmao, that's awesome! I sent a guy friend of mine videos or pics of sharks when his new girlfriends was coming over to give him a bj. I was a little jealous