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I'm afraid she will leave me now for someone who can satisfy her.

My girlfriend and I had sex 3 days ago (it was my first time she has been with 3 other guys) and she told me she really likes it rough. My penis has a very awkward downward bend in it when it gets hard. (like holding a banana to your crotch is what it looks like). I tried to go rough but it becomes awkward and painful because of the curvature. I can only go slowly and gently and not experience pain. She seemed really disappointed after and didn't even talk to me. I'm really depressed now I feel so inadequate as a man that I can't please my girl. I don't know what to do I'm afraid she will leave me now for someone who can satisfy her.
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  • Half the fun of having sex is learning what works and new experiences if she can't be patient and work with you to find what works for both of you she kinda sucks. I'm sure there are plenty of guys who have a similar curvature I once dated a guy who curved to the left and with a bit of creativity we had a blast. Don't sell yourself short hunni and don't beat yourself up because we all started out as struggling virgins. I'd recommend doggy style or modified missionary. Prop her up on some pillows so that she's at angle to the bed that way when you penetrate the angle better suits your curve and you can go as fast as you like.

  • It was your first time! Whose to say you can't go faster? it's a matter of getting used to it. If she's that impatient, she's not worth it. And if she's leaving you for what she thinks is better sex, why are you even with her? Who is to say you can't satisfy her? :/

    Honestly, this is perfectly normal. Try doing her doggie style :P you'll hit all the right places, your bends perfect for doggie and reverse cowgirl! She should not be complaining.

    You are not inadequate. Your penis sounds great; now smile a little, please? Really, you have nothing to worry about.

    • I wish I could hug you. Your such a sweetheart :)

    • Aw, thank you! I'm just being honest. I hope it all works out for the best.

    • Dear!ur answer z so inspirating,.its very nice and truthful of you..

Most Helpful Guys

  • If intercourse is awkward and painful whenever you do it, why not drop it? You have a very valid reasons to do so, and other ways to spend your time and her energy. If you're good enough, and she's good enough, no one will miss it all that much. You won't miss the pain, either.

    I'm always of the opinion that, when possible, your sex life shouldn't suck.

  • You can try... other things.

    May be you can improve your technique with orals and fingering?

    Also, if she will leave you just because you don't satisfy her sexual needs, then that is not a healthy relationship. You might want to consider why you're with her, and more importantly, why she's with you.

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  • trust me you have nothing to worrie about she won't what your saying this gives a woman a more intence feeling don't worrie :)

  • Try other positions that work with your penis shape. You're definitely not the only man who has that shape...so google around for positions that really accentuate adn cater to your shape...

    • Thats perfect..

  • She has to know that you going faster is not easy for you physically. Curves are kinda cool if a guy knows how to use it. If she doesn't like the way you do your thing, then move on. Promise when I say you will find a girl that can appreciate a curve and someone that takes there time.

  • She obviously doesn't get,she cnt even suggest you both try another position,.u cn try doing doggie style and few others,..

  • try doggie...that might work well with your curve

    • Yeah doggy is probably the best position for you and for her... grabbing some hair and some pulling and some spanking ;) but seriously she should understand it takes some time to tune this stuff... and if she isn't willing to be a little patient - she isn't worth it. communicate and you'll be fine - make sure she knows you are willing to try Harder ;)

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