I'm afraid to give my boyfriend a blow job for fear that I won't be good?

I usually just suck him off a bit before sex but I've never actually got him off with one. He wants me to but I'm terrified that I'll be bad. He says I'm good? But I'm positive it's just because he wants them. He's the first guy I've been sexual with and we've been together 11 months. Help! Pointers and opinions please?
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  • Be careful with your teeth. Don't suck too hard. No need to "deep throat".

    Focus lips and tongue at and just past the cap. Nurse like a baby.

    Stroke the shaft rapidly with a moderate grip.

    Don't stop or pull off when he starts to come. Just slow way down.

    If you don't want to swallow, just open your mouth around his c0ck and let it dribble down.

    • He doesn't like me using my hand hahs but the rest is good advice. Thank you!

    • if you are doing him no hands still encircle the base of his c0ck with thumbs and first fingers pushing down lightly. It will stop his balls from bouncing and keep him better aimed and a little harder.

  • Practice makes perfect. Nobody does it right the first time. Try out different things, ask what he likes and what he doesn't like. Play with it, spend time learning. In no time you'll be an expert.

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  • Opinion: you won't ever know if you're good or not and if you aren't, how to get better. Tell him before hand that you're kind of sensitive to your performance with him, and for him to offer up tips and suggestions for you to improve on. Just be open with him so that you can improve things and make him really enjoy it. It doesn't hurt to ask for help from him.

  • Just tell him you need to practice. Ask him how he wants it.

    • This.

    • I do ask him! He doesn't elaborate at all. He says "Don't use your hands, and like bob up and down and lick my shaft and suck on my balls and sh*t". Not a lot of help exactly! And when I do suck on his balls, his entire body shudders and he wants me to stop so he can stick it in. I don't even know if it's good or not. ):

    • Tell him to elaborate. That's the only way, really. Don't just sit there saying "okay". Ask him when you're not having sex. Either way, if he's shuddering and asks to put it in, I'd imagine he's gotten enough and just wants to get it on.

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  • Only way they can go wrong is if there is teeth... And practice makes perfect! He won't mind, trust me.

  • Don't be afraid. It's very very likely he'll enjoy it...