You should ask, "Do you like guys?" If he says no, you say, "Then could you please not walk around naked?" Then you won't be as tempted if he's clothed the majority of the time. If he says yes, then you say, "Then could you please walk around naked more?" Eheh.
No, but seriously. I think rather than telling him about you, you should find out about him first (without hinting about yourself). It'll save any awkwardness if he's not into men. I had a friend I was attracted to once, and we had to change everyday in gym together. Without telling her anything, I found out that she hated gays. All feelings of attraction disappeared.0 0 0 0Thanks for the advice.
Hey I was reading the answers... but anyways as for what the other girls said just becasue you find out he doesn't have a problem with gays/bi whatever doesn't mean he is gay or bi. I mean I don't have a problem with gay people but I am as straight as can be, so just cause he doesn't have and issue doesn't mean you should just come out. A better route may be to pay attention to his tendencies, Does he have a girlfriend? Ask him about past relationships? I'm sure friendly convo can lead to you figuring out whether or not he's into girls or guys.
0 0 0 0Before you do anything to make the situation awkward, ask him how he feels about the GAYS. His answer will asist you with your situation.
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Come out, but hold off on the flirting. Then he'll know you're available and into guys.
I'm not a pro at flirting with guys, so I'll only say to be as ambiguous with him as possible until you get a clear positive sign. You don't want to creep him out at close quarters.0 0 0 0seriously. make sure the find out his opinion about homosexuals first. otherwise it can be not only awkward, but really really bad!
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2 0Maybe you should just walk around naked too.
BUT it might be safest to do as anon below said. Vaguely mention something to do with gay people and see how he reacts. Don't be like "Sooo...How do you feel about gay people?" or he'll know what's up . xD
Good luck. :D0 0 0 0Yeah I kinda agree with the others. there are ways to find out how he feels without coming straight out and saying your bi. maybe bring up some news story about gays. I know at my school we put on the larami project (which is a play about a gay boy) and protesters came to our campus. it was a popular subject so it was easy to find out peoples view points. his reaction to the convo will give you some hints to his reaction to you comin out. GOOD LUCK!
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