I bled on him during sex - deal breaker?

Ok sorry to get graphic for this question but its really bothering me. I'm seeing a guy for the last couple of months we text every day and have had sex a good couple of times already. Anyway we were having sex two nights ago after a date and suddenly I started bleeding during it, I have no idea why, My period was over two weeks ago and it was completely out of the blue. He got really freaked out, ripped off the sheets, quickly got dressed and kept asking me what does it mean that that happened. I should've told him, I messed up the night blah blah... I was just as confused about it as him saying its never happened before and that I'm so so embarrassed and worried So he seemed to calm down a bit and while we were cuddling he made me promise him to go see someone about it. He even insisted he come too. When I was going home the next day he held my hand kept asking me if I was okay. We were texting as usual and he asked me if I'm feeling better and that he's worried about me. So I did I texted him back saying I went to see the doctor and that 'it's nothing major to be worrying about' He hasn't text me back since and it's been a day and a half! What could be his problem? He seemed okay with the situation that happened?
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  • This is common for girls, and guys should be aware that this can happen at times, and he really needs to research the facts of women before sleeping with one, but him asking sounds like it was just concern, due to his lack of knowledge of girls, but there's no excuse for him not to contact you for so long, he should be reassuring you that its OK it happened and that he understands, because girls can get really embarrased about these things, so contact him and see if he is reaasuring towards you, because if he is not, then he isn't worthy of your talents, good luck,x

  • Well first of all..he should realize that you could use some reassurance and he should be supportive towards you...your question is a little misplaced...nothing involving blood would be a deal breaker with me...but the real question is..what is going on in HIS mind...why don't you tell him that this is bothering you and you would like to know if this or something else is bothering him? Please update us?...and good luck..have a GREAT Weekend!...(:(:(:

    • thanks :) well for the update you requested, he finally did text back saying he's glad to hear this etc, and that he didn't want to seem like he 'didn't care' cause he did. I'm happy with that, but a part of me is thinking he taught I was pregnant or something cause of the blood and now he's relieved that I'm not and wants to get the hell away lol! however the texts are getting less and less frequent with him as of late which I don't know why, I really think that situation turned him off me!

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  • It happened to my girlfriend and it didn't freak me out.

    It happened to me (frenulum of prepuce of penis teared) and she didn't freak out either (there was an awful lot of blood!)