I can only come if I hump a pillow?

i know it sounds really stupid but is there something wrong with me? if I finger myself it doesn't do anything and if I touch my clit then its to much, sorry for tmi but I'm really stumped here... :( thanks
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like what could I do to not just come from that :D
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Most Helpful Girls

  • i'm the same way-there are tons of girls who can't get themselves off just by using their fingers since the direct pressure is just too much-that's why the pillow barrier is great.

    Plus, even with vaginal sex lots of women can't come from that alone. Girl on top is great for that because you're guy can thrust while you rub against his pubic bone each time. Works great for me

  • I used to feel the same way, my clit was too sensitive for the direct pressure of my fingers or something like that. I'm not sure what changed, maybe I just got used to it. Sorry I'm not more helpful :P

Most Helpful Guys

  • You can by desensitizibg gel that you can rub on your clit and it will dull the sensation, but it might not work straight away and might tequire a few more sessions

    If your a virgin, I've heard that some girls can only get off if somebody elses fingers plays with them so that's a thought

    Buy a g-spot stimulator to have different orgasms

  • You found what works, that mean's there's something *right* with you. Ask a girl who hasn't figured out how to come yet, she'll tell you what I mean.

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  • thats is so weird in so many levels..and kinda scary.. :s

  • It's cool...I can only get off when I hump my pillow too :D

  • Have you ever tried a sleeping bag?

  • it's probably the way your pillow is positioned