Go look up hymen. & Virginity loss of. Its going to hurt while you strectch. once you strectch it will be fine. If you are putting your finger up there without being wet , it is going to hurt A LOT more. You can of course solve this , by making sure you are aroused before you get your finger up there. Doing it consistently everyday or two , a little more every time, should do it. I did that . When I started I couldn't get one knuckle up.up. Now I can get my whole hand if I try. I generally have no reason to do that , but point is - I cold & it dosn't hurt. Took me about 6 months, from having intense pain , to sliding in up and out.You have to slowly stretch the hymen and the walls of the vagina.. They say if you can get up to your second knuckle in without pain you have broken your hymen, As for width you now what's up- because you see what is comfortable and what is not.
Usually a girl's first time hurts. It's normal.
When you have sex, you'll be turned on and you'll be wet. So it won't be hard to have a penis up in there. However, if it really hurts you're first time and it doesn't wana happen, go get lube. It'll slip right in! lol
And hun, when you masterbate, don't stick your fingers in there, just move around your clit. That's when you'll start feeling wet :)
Hope this helps! ;)
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!You probably can't put more fingers in because your hymen is in the way. The first time you have sex he will have to break that so it will hurt some but after that you should be fine.
Relax, practice and lube
i'm the same way
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