I can, and it's amazing... But it can take a really long time, and sometimes I just *can't*.
Some things work better for me than other things, and my girlfriend and I have been getting closer, but it's still something that only very rarely happens. Usually, I'll just enjoy it lots and lots and then we'll do somethign else :)
If we really want me to come in her mouth, I'll use my hands to get me right at the edge and then pop back in.
But don't feel like you're a weirdo - other guys are like that too. Let her know it felt amazing, and you really enjoy it, and you're not worried if you don't come from it, but you don't mind if she keeps tryind ;) Just make sure you tell her lots how amazing it feels and thank her for going down on you - you can make sure it's a positive experience for both of you, instead of frustrating, by talking about the positive parts.
Generally after 10 minutes you want to use your own hand. You can always make yourself cum easily. So you spend a minute or two on yourself and you finish in her mouth. A lot of women like to watch you pleasure yourself while on their knees before you, tell her to open her mouth as you are almost ready. Slide it in as you are about to cum, she will finish the job with her mouth. Everyone is happy.
Sex is very mental. Many things can keep you from cumming. Being tense, having performance anxiety, distracting thoughts going through your head, not being turned on, her frustration, none of it helps. Guys most definitely do cum from blowjobs, but they have to be extremely turned on and want to cum that way in order to do it. I suggest you alternate her sucking, licking and stroking your cock with you stroking it for a bit, back and forth between the two of you. Have her talk dirty to you and beg you to cum in her mouth. Remember that when you cum in her mouth you pleasure and please her by giving her the joy of swallowing. Think about that and maybe it'll turn you on enough to cum for her.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Do you watch porn by any chance? You are most likely desensitized and now can't climax to real girls
I do watch porn like 10 hours each day, but when I use my own hand I can cum in like 1 minute. Maybe Im anxious about a girl doin it for me?
I would quit the porn immediately. You trained your brain only to be aroused and ejaculate to a computer screen
Its real hard for me also. My dick preferres a vagina
I'm glad I don't feel alone about that :)
Most but not all can. I know I only have once.
It’s not easy for me either. I think I’d have to have several days of abstention behind me and have a skilled girl before I’d be able to. I haven’t met many girls with that level of skill.
I'll only cum from a blow job if I assist her. It's normal to cum from blow jobs and it's normal not to.
Same here, my dick is just too in love with the pussy.
BJs are heavy foreplay to me, not an alternative.
I have never. I need to control the friction and tempo to climax.
Try something else
Never gotten off from one either. For some people there just isn't enough stimulation.
I have the opposite problem.
it's normal. some guys don't come from it, not abou feeling tense.
Yes I cum all the time from bjs. My girls really good the longest it takes is 5mins
Really? Maybe I'm just so tense and nervous
Relax she's doing the work. Does she suck and give you a hand job at the same time?
Yeah, but maybe I should tell her next time to use both her hands while sucking my cock? She only uses one hand. It already feels like heaven, but the extra hand should help me cum I think?
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