I can't feel vaginal stimulation?

I'm 20 years old, still a virgin. I've always had problems with masturbation, nothing felt so good and intense to make me orgasm. I could masturbate for hours and nothing would happen, I would only get tired and annoyed. I tried masturbating with DIY toys and my fingers, but I could literally feel nothing. Then as I got older I noticed that the only way I can orgasm is by clitoral stimulation, but it has to be strong and intense (like with a shower head and bullet vibrator). Masturbation does feel way better if I combine vaginal and clitoral stimulation. That's the only way I can feel something that actually feels good. Does any other girl have the same problem? And is there anything I can do to fix this?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • EVERY woman has this problem, AND it's NOT a problem. Despite what you may hear to the contrary, the only part of a woman's body that has the capacity to orgasm is the clitoris. You may even have some yayhoo coming and arguing with this post.

    Only a small percentage of women can get adequate stimulation to the clitoris through the vaginal wall to have an orgasm.

    The orgasms you have are the real deal, the "good" kind, and what you're experiencing is only a problem if you have a man who thinks his penis alone will make you orgasm.

    You're not broken. It is, in fact, ONLY the clitoris that orgasms, no matter how it is stimulated.

  • I've had this problem, it is actually every single girl that does not feel much pleasure unless you hit the G spot, you need to find where yours is or if you have a partner, they need to find it to be able to make you orgasm, once you find it I promise it is much unlike anything else. Took me a long time to learn this and they even explained it to me when I went to a sex shop. Combining clit and Vaginal helps a lot as well. Some women are more clit than they are Vaginal when it comes to feeling pleasure.

  • Vaginal sex doesn't feel good to me. I don't care for fingering. I don't care for oral. And I've been with both males and females. I can only get clitoral stimulation period. Everywhere else i can feel amazing except for the inside of my lady bits. So... I don't think there's anything 'wrong' with me so i definitely don't think there's anything wrong with you. Every woman is different. When it comes to us, there is no such thing as normal.

Most Helpful Guys

  • There are many women that can only reach orgasm through clitoral stimulation. That is not at all unusual. And that means that many women don't orgasm from intercourse alone because they don't get enough clitoral contact from that.

    If you can't get there with fingers or a tongue on your clitoris I think that's more unusual but probably still not rare. When you're in a relationship your partner just needs to figure out what works and be sure to do that. Not everyone gets there the same way.

  • Most girls have only orgasm by clitoral stimulation or combined with vaginal stinulation. An orgasm from only vaginal stimulation is not easy. Maybe a boy can help you to get n orgasm (fingers / tongue)

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  • Most women need clitoral simulation to orgasm so yes it is normal. Nothing's wrong with it so there's nothing to fix.

  • The majority of women dont get off on vaginal penetration. Its normal.

  • Very normal. Not many woman come by just plain fucking. If ever running into issues during sex just use a vibe on your clit whilst being fucked.

  • That's normal. Fix? Nothing's broken. That's how clits work lol

  • The majority of women can't get off from vaginal stuff alone so you're not alone