I can't get my boyfriend to come from a hand job -tips please?

If I give him a blow job he cums. But I can't get him to come from a hand job. Sometimes even with a blow job, he stops to give himself a hand job and then tells me when he's about to come and I let him come in my mouth. He says he likes my blow jobs, but never comments about my hand jobs. I'd like to improve both. How to I make him come while giving him a blow job. (he will pre-cum but not finish without a hand job). HOw do I give him a good hand job?
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  • I am not even remotely interested in receiving a hand job, I can do that myself way better than you will ever be able to. So Im not going to talk about hand jobs at all.

    Personally I would always choose ejaculating in your mouth from your blowjob than finishing myself.

    I would only choose that if i was having a hard time getting there and i felt it was a requirement to finish and sometimes its just hard, its not happening for me and I can get that on solo flights too so its not necessarily you.

    He may have been watching too much porn and wants to cum over your face which is why he is pulling out to finish by hand but then maybe he is lacking sufficient pressure to spray it all over your face like he wanted to. I really have no idea if that is anything close to right or not, Im just throwing it out there because i thought it was funny.

    Enthusiasm counts for a lot, be hungry for it, everybody wants to be wanted.

    • You sound like a virgin

  • ok. start slow, barley touching himt/it until he is completely hard. then grip the middle of length, a good grip, and go that way. once he starts to really enjoy it, get out the conveniently bought flavored lube (flavored for you). lube him up, and use your non dominant hand to press down around the base., and go at him with your dominant hand. That's how my girlfriend gets me off with handies.

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  • Just ... do both...like wait what when you mean handjob...is it like... only a boring ass handjob? Haha <3

    • lol yea. that's my problem with hand jobs. I'm not good at them at all. I find them boring so I'm not focus on it or him at all when I'm doing it. Blow jobs I can really get into. How can I make a hand job more interesting a appealing to me?

    • I...I don't think you can? This is the thing. If you would rather have done a mix of blow job/hand job. I don't reallllyy see the point in giving him a hand job. Like ... a blow job is CERTAINLY number one and a hand job is a far off number 2. A girl groping and tugging at my penis somehow doesn't sound as exciting :-P. It takes way too long and I might just end up with blue balls. Best of luck.

  • Sounds like something going on maybe a mental thing with him? How do you do it now? I mean if your giving him a BJ with it at the same time, it should be nice and wet? For me wet and not dry is huge. I love lubes, creams and massage oils for getting HJs. What's your grip or stroking like? Everyone receiving is different, so try variations and don't get frustrated. Keep trying til you find the right combo. Right speed and right grip will get it! If he's moaning or enjoying something stay with what you're currently doing. But I love the balls and underneath massaged and scratched while getting one too. That helps me. Yeah I like nails and light scratches mixed in all over too. It's just different feels! Everyone is different though. Hope that helps. He's a lucky guy having a girl like you do that. Not every girl is into that either.

  • Go fast and grip tight.

  • You're competing with his own hand. And no one can give me a better hand job than I can. I have no advice for you because I actually don't like hand jobs from others.

    • I don't know my boyfriend prefers hand jobs with lube after he cums he's can't sit still and moans during it lots of cum he says I'm really good at it

    • @Tammy2425 My the same haha , he just love it. When we tried it first time we don't use lube , and it was mistake. Lube is very important

  • Blow jobs are just way better. The saliva and the tongue gets your penis feeling wet and good, while hand jobs are just kinda like a massage. You should use lubricant which gives the feeling of a blowjob, and squeezing his penis and rubbing intensely back and forth really makes it feel good. Make it last though, and play with his balls. Play with the tip of his penis too. The glans feels especially good when touched.

  • Hand jobs are more difficult to cum with. lube lube lube. excessive amounts help. and lots of head action, it needs the most attention for me anyway.

  • oil him up

  • What the fuck is wrong with your boyfriend lol don't blame yourself

  • Try different timing.

  • touch his balls to maybe