Hands, Mouth, Tongue, Pressure, also.. DONT FORGET THE BALLS, those things need attention too.
Deep throating works well... stick out your tongue as far as you can, once you are down and use pressure with your tongue to press against the base of the d*** and massage it.
If you can't DT, use your hands (make sure they're lubed), massage the **** with both hands, and suck firmly (not hard) using your tongue on the base of the d***on the inside (where the base and sac meet),do all this while stroking him, make your hand a little bit tighter with each inch you move down his d***
Put your thumb and pointer fingers together to make a little ring around his d***. Do this with both hands. Squeeze them just tight enough to because pressure wherever you are touching.
As your head moves up and down use those rings you've made with your hands to sort of jack him off while you are blowing him.
Only use your hands to move DOWN his d***, never go up, as that causes negative friction.
This technique helps you because you won't have to deep throat him because your hands give the effect of more of his **** being enveloped by you.
Technique is good, and so is enthusiam (which doesn't sound like it's lacking here, LOL).
But ultimately, some guys just can't come this way, just like some guys PREFER to come this way. Maybe over time he will get more comfortable with the different sensations (it's very different from a vagina) and it might happen, but then again, it might not. Don't take it personally. Even if he doesn't cum, you should know it still feels fantastic.
Personally, it took a while for me to be able to come this way, and even now, it doesn't always happen. I know guys who have trouble orgasming with sex, but come easily with a BJ. We're all different.
I have never tried the finger up the buttt trick? Get his **** as far down your throat as u can each time down and slide your hand up and down on it to as well. Key is enough spit (I know it doesn't sound sexy but it is) and keep those hands moving. Works every time for me!
I could never get my ex either that way. The only way I could get him to come in my mouth was to have sex with him first. When he got close to cumming, he would pull out and then I could finish him off in my mouth. You might try something like that.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Some guys just have a mental block - BUT ANY block can be over'come' hehe pun! Tell him to close his eyes and relax if he normally is looking. Tell him to think about it as being sex. We are often taught that oral sex is dirty and while it doesn't keep us from doing it is still is in the back of a guys mind. If you do it well enough you will be able to get him to come. Just note how much pressure you are using because there is a good chance you might need to vary it and such. Goodluck.
When he starts moaning, include your hands and start going really fast and don't stop until he "gets there"... If a hand gets tired, switch 'em...
"My boyfriend told me from the start that he doesn't cum' from head."
Why not take him at his word?
hum...
slide a finger in his ass...
Actually from what I hear this can make it almost impossible for a guy not to come (if you do it right) but I've never actaully had anyone do it so idont know. It would make me feel kinda awkward even though I love fingering both holes if a girlfriend asks.
I like where your mind's at :)
Just yell at him until he comes, lol. Just try to figure out what he likes best and try deepthroat.
Lol!
idk...I don't care for bjs and I have never finished that way either...(:
go really hard use your mouth and catch him by surprise by sticking your finger up his bum :P
Use a combination of hands and mouth.
Tell him not to beat off for 24 hours prior to seeing you.
Use prostrate pressure below or by sticking in a finger while you are sucking.
He has to avoid masturbation for a long period of time, to avoid that situation where he's used to coming only a certain way.
play with his balls also.. it'll make him crazy
I was the same way, but then my girlfriend learned to deepthroat, and jerk me off while she went down on me, if you learn those two things, you'll make any guy finish.
very very true!
How do I "jerk" him off? Lol
go to youporn.com and search blowjobs, you'll learn everything.
yeah I'm definitely posting this anonymously-----tip 1...you have 2 hands...they should both be busy tip 2...he probably lacks the sensitivity due to rediculous amounts of masturbating-(I had the same problem when I came back from overseas)...with one hand pull the skin taunt towards the base of his "action"...with the other hand stroke it like he's jerkin off...you don't even have to go deep even though its an amazing sensation here and there,change up the hand placement,switch which hands do what,where and when...and don't forget to give the "sock drawer" some attention also...thats his...test tickles...hope this helps
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