I can't physically give blow jobs

I just can't do it. I can't open my mouth very wide, I can only open it wide enough to fit 2 of my fingers width in, if I try 3 my teeth scrape them and it hurts my jaw. I don't think any penis is going to be that skinny? So how am I going to give a blow job? I hear most guys like them. Is it okay if I just lick and kiss his penis? Or do I actually have to put in my mouth to please him?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Is it okay if I just lick and kiss his penis? Yes, with stoking. See below.

    I actually have to put in my mouth to please him? Not exactly. See below.

    1. Work up saliva in your mouth and wet your lips, forming an open kiss.

    2. Part your teeth only 1/2" or so, enough to get your tongue through.

    3. Suck/kiss GENTLY (a Vag does not suck hard) in and release the cap rhythmically, while you randomly lick at the slot and make circles around the cap. The tip of his penis will contact your parted teeth but it will not hurt if you suck lightly.

    4. Stroke the full length of his penis vigorously, two fingers on top (not much sensation) and your thumb on the "vein" below. Only compress the vein half way because the stroking sends sort of hydraulic stimulation to the prostate. You don't want to force fluid back down or impede the shot when it comes.

    5. When he comes, stop moving your mouth and tongue, but keep light vacuum on. Stop stroking during each pump of his penis and stroke between them to keep them coming.

    "pump! stroke-stroke pump! stroke-stroke pump! stroke-stroke" like that.

    6. While he comes, you can curl your tongue up inside your teeth and catch the load beneath it...not down your throat (less taste and no gagging and then spit or swallow when you are finished.

    There you have it.

  • you might actually be in luck by having a tight mouth actually won't be that bad of a thing, it could be a huge plus, firstly don't worry about size if a guy can put his d*** in an asshole a small mouth won't be an issue and secondly I have found that girls with small mouths naturally give the best blowjobs since their lips wrap around the package so tightly.

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  • Its not the end of the world. A guy who truly likes you for you will understand and be okay with you using your mouth and tongue in other ways other than putting his whole package in your mouth. You probably won't get him off by just licking it, but I'm it'll turn him on.

  • How to give bj ... there are several other really good answers on this site so to your last question I would pretty much tend to say YES!

    But how come that you cannot physically open your mouth wider than an inch? Have you been to a dentist or to an orthodontist?

    • I second the last part of this.

    • Yeah I've been to an orthodontist, I have braces right now. I also had my wisdom teeth out not that long ago so maybe it will just take a while to heal. Maybe I can actually open it wider, I never really tryed before I had my wisdom teeth out. It feels like it's healed but I can't open my mouth that wide so I guess it hasn't fully. Unless I just have a small mouth.

  • I recommend lubing up your hands &/or boobs if they are big enough to T*tty F*ck him---do that &/or give a good handjob, but lick & suck the head too if your able to. I'm wondering if you may have TMJ--may wanna see a doctor.

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  • Practice, practice, practice

  • "I have a problem with my jaw, so I can't give blowjobs." Just take the medical exception and figure something else out. If this is TMJ we're talking about, you're flirting with a dislocation--not worth it.

    • My orthodontist said I might have mild tmj because when I open and close my jaw you can hear slight clicking and it hurts when I open up wide.

  • Wouldnt worry bout it as long as your vagina can fit a penis

  • this is the weirdest thing I've ever heard in my life. what does it feel like for you to scream?

    • why is it so weird? not everyone can open their mouth wide without pain. I don't scream, why would I scream? and why would not being able to open my mouth stop me from doing it? I'm sure if I got scared and had to scream I could still do it :S

  • I can't open my mouth wide either and I have braces too. But I have never been able to open my mouth wide

    • Braces should not be a problem. The front of your teeth should not be involved, no teeth should lol

    • Have you had braces loveatfirstsite? they make it difficult to cover your teeth with your lips.

    • Trust me, braces are NOT a problem.

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  • there's a lot of small penis out there