I can't talk dirty?

Well... You see... During sex, my boyfriend likes to kind of talk dirty sometimes, and I just get so shy saying things like that. For example, I don't like saying the C word to describe the male genitalia or the P word to describe the female genitalia. I also can't bring myself to say the A word. He wants me to say things like " I want to suck your _____" or "My ______ is extremely wet for you". I get so embarrassed, and I've tried to say it, but every time I do, it turns into an incomprehensible mumble. Is talking dirty that big of a turn on to most guys? How can I get more comfortable saying things like that?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • My man loves it when I talk dirty to him. Start off just saying a few things and notice his reaction to it. You'll realize that he really does like it and that he's not thinking that you sound stupid at all. On the contrary he's probably thinking about how hot you sound when you say dirty words. You've got to start slow and gain confidence. The more you do it, and realize he likes it, the more comfortable you'll get with it. I always tell him it's his p**** or I ask him who's p**** it is... He'll respond back and it really gets him going and makes dirty talk easier on my end. I'm shy and quite reserved in the bedroom, but he's helped me explore and gain confidence in what I do in the sack.

  • My boyfriend likes to talk dirty to me and I think its EXTRA hot.

    I know at first it can be really daunting... what do I say? do I sound silly? But believe me... most guys will just be turned on that you are that into it ...

    Start off by describing what is going on or what you are feeling like, "It feels so good when you do that," "Please don't stop," "Its so hard..."

    I know it seems awkward... but if your man is into it... it can enhance the experience for both of you...

Most Helpful Guys

  • I'm a virgin but I honestly wouldn't even care if a girl didn't want to talk dirty... In fact, I'd prefer it to be that way. It seems so... immature or something to me, not even loving and more objectifying. It sounds like something a horny high school couple would say to each other, IMO.

    Someone mentioned "generic phrases" and I'd personally be fine with those. Maybe I'm old-fashioned... Don't get me wrong I'd like to have fun with my partner, joke, use slang, and I'd want to make her feel beautiful, but I just don't have a thing for the dirtier sexual terms I guess.

  • Vulva!

    (Sorry... it's an old Friends reference.)

    Practice makes perfect. Start out with generic phrases like "I am so wet", "I want you in my mouth", and "I want you inside me"... as you get more comfortable, you can start throwing in more words. I'm willing to bet that your boyfriend doesn't care about the actual verbage, but rather the enthusiam it implies.

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  • add me abster_555@hotmail.com, practice with me and think I am your boyfriend try and bring it out of yourself, I will help you

  • Yes its a turn on. Practice Practice Practice. Also, a little booze/420 helps to open you up. Although it'd be nice if you can get their with out it. Just takes time and practice.