I caught my girl exposing herself on a webcam.

I have been with this girl for a few years and I recently suspected that there was something more than just friends that she was talking to online. I came home from work early around 1am and looked in the window to find her raising her shirt in front of a webcam. Some guys might not care but I was devastated by this. Of course she told me this is the first time that it has happened. She told me she would stop talking to the guy but later caught her talking to him again. This happened months ago and I still can't stop thinking about it. Any advice?
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  • If that was months ago and you still can't stop thinking about it then just talk to her about it. If you don't want to end it with her then that's the only thing you can do. Tell her how it made you feel, and I'm sure you have trust issues with her now. A relationship can't survive without trust and honesty. So be honest with her and tell her how you feel. If she truly does care about you and if she did stop talking to him, then she should understand and tell you that you are the only person she wants to be with. Obviously what she did was not okay, you need to tell her that. And if it does happen again, then I think you should probably end it, because relationships are built on trust and if you can't trust her, then what's the point in staying together? Hope I helped, good luck:)

    • Thanks for the reply. Seems like the girls have better point of view than the guys.

  • It is a really bad thing, but not the worst.. you have 2 ask her why first? not who or when or how? and tell her that she is free in her answer and that you won't get mad or think of leaving her plz and you should feel that way 2 ( unless if she stopped loving you or if she can't enjoy bed with you anymore).. I'm sure it's not easy 4 you but you seem like a good guy and it looks like you care 4 her so don't let jealousy controls u.. it is a seriouse problem but she must have a reason so plz know why first and then try 2 sort things out.. wish you all the best :)

    Sincerely

    • Thank answering. You are caring and sincere.

  • Dump that hoe. you should have dumped that slutty bitch the minute you found out about it. that is completely unacceptable. a real woman with respect for herself and her man would not do that

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Most Helpful Guys

  • dump her... it is not as if she was lurd in the moment uner alcohol... this lady arrange a setting so she can emotionally cheat on you with somebody else. She is not satisfied with you and not respectable enough to talk to you so that you both work on year problems.

  • I would be devastated to. Tell her you want to know. And that you are concerned. There is no excuse for something like that. She must of gotten pretty bored if you have been dating for a few years. You should of been that guy on the other side of the cam.

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  • Ignore it until it goes away.

  • take the webcam and break and say it was an accident that way you stop the promelm without confrintation

  • I think most normal guys would care so yuore not alone with that. I would just break up with her and never look back

  • dump her, or she wil dump you for that guy