I am a cheating bastard. Girls, please help, or beat the heck out of me x)

[turkishluv]

I am a young man 22 years of age living in Norway. At the moment I got something going with a girl in my class, but, at a party I had sex with another girl in my class. And they don't know about eachother. Besides I got something going with another girl on the side, she is cool. I like her the best, I actually really really like her. And besides that I have sex with a girl that I used to hang out with, but we broke it off, but have had sex a couple of times ;o goddamn.. Anyways, I want out. i want this 1 girl that I like. but what about the others? I maaay have given them some hope, at least 1 of them.. aaaaaaa my love to women is destroying me!;o

[That-Guy]

I don't understand, what exactly are you doing wrong? Are any of these girls your girlfriend or are you simply dating?

Are you lying to them about your intentions or purposely misleading them in any way? Fawk with people's emotions and you'll get your car keyed and shíted on.

Otherwise it sounds to me like you are dating and enjoying life.

so you like this 1 girl, date her, see if you can move the interaction towards a relationship and if you do, decide between the two of you if you two want to just date exclusively rather than dating around.

you are spaz man.

[tex151]

I don't see the problem here, your single your sort of dating a girl in class, and you had sex with another girl in class, and another girl on the side. Welcome to the world of dating your doing exactly what your supposed to do and your not cheating cause you not with any of them, as in boyfriend and gf.

[Tamikaze]

Stop seeing the other girls and focus on the one you like before you ruin any chances you have with her. As far as what to do about your rampant sexual indiscretions, well you need to consider learning how to control your appetite for sleeping with any woman that presents herself as an opportunity. That is a matter of choice and self-control. Or, you may just have to accept that you are not ready to stick with one girl at this time in your life.

[turkishluv]

Well said x)

[That-Guy]

From his post, I highly doubt settling down with a girl is going to work out. He's got a lot of options and unless one really hits home, why not just enjoy it? From a guy's view, he's getting laid and having a lot of excitement. As long as he's honest about his intentions, keep at it until one of those girls feels like the one you want to start a relationship with. I agree, if he is truly serious about this girl, he should practice control but in this case, he's not ready. I can just tell.

[Tamikaze]

He isn't being honest about his intentions. What in his post gave you that idea? Cute. I agree a 22 year old can f**k around as much as he wants as long as he is being honest and I find that a rare quality in a guy whose getting laid a lot.

[That-Guy]

He's never stated anything that says he's leading them on but he hasn't said he hasn't either. This is obviously not a guy for any girl who wants a serious relationship. The girls for this guy are the little 18-20 year olds who are drunk and mimicking the "college experience." Which is fine, do it up and just have fun. I don't get what's so wrong with what he's doing. So far, it sounds like dating. I think you are applying female's idea of meeting people vs the conquer it man way.

[Tamikaze]

I never said what he is doing is wrong. He's the one posting asking for help so obviously he thinks there is a problem. Chances are at least one of the girls he is hanging with thinks he is in to her if not all of them. I seriously doubt they are all perfectly fine with him having sex with multiple girls. I bet if they all knew, they would treat him differently.

[That-Guy]

I guess in his spazy writing, I forgot to look for his actual question which was "i want out." Good call.

[turkishluv]

Haha x)

[bellahgd]

you don't o em anything until its official! yes... its mean, yes you might hurt their feelings, yes you might seem like an a-hole and yes... you give the image of a player... but ur not cheating on anyone your a single guy having fun!

As for that girl you like, if your really want her... then just tell her! however, ur guna have to let go of the others!

hope this helps :)

[urstrully]

u don't love women. lol. ur a player. and that results from a prob that women aren't good enuff for you. so sweetie grow up.find ONE to stick with or don't stick with any at all and keep at ur life with meaningless sex and breaking girls hearts. all ur really gonna earn is hate if you keep cheating on women like dat. and most likely end up alone or having karma play a good one on u.

[jacquesvol]

If you were a girl acting like that they would call you a... [guess what] How would you call her?

[Anonymous]

Dude just bow out gracefully, you don't deserve to have either one of them. You don't "love" women, if you did you would be more respectful of their feelings and not treat them like objects for your personal satisfaction. How is he cool for lying to people and being dishonest? See and then guys get mad when women say F yall and just get you for money.