I could have been gang raped?

I met a guy at a club didn't know him well and went to his place. He invited his friends. I know people do it all the time. but some of my friends said that's very dangerous . are they just exaggerating? whacha think?
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  • Yes it's a risk.

    The guy was a stranger, as were his friends, so you probably didn't know him well, or for long enough to make that sort of judgement call - especially considering where you met him - in a club - and the alcohol that was probably consumed on both sides. So your judgement maybe wasn't at it's best.

    So it's a risky situation to put yourself in. I'm not suggesting that every guy who meets a girl at a club and invites her to his place is going to rape her - of course he isn't. It's fairly rare. But still something that should be done with due caution. It's a situation which could be harmless - but it'm not entirely sure it's worth the potential risk either.

    So yes - unlikely - but not impossible, and I wouldn't risk it; especially not alone.

  • first of all you shouldn't meet guys that are at clubs or leave with them guys go to clubs not hoping to find their soul mate but to get some,and yes it would have probably happened.

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  • 99.99% of the time, your not going to get "gang raped". But I will say this, going back to a guys house just by yourself is always risky, especially if he has a lot of friends there with him that may help him over power you.

    Again, Next to zero guys would actually every do something like this, but that's not to say its impossible. Next time, invite a few of your girl friends to come back with you. I mean hey, his friends could have probably used a bit of company too.

  • Could you have been? Yes, of course that's possible; this WAS a stranger after all, and you probably didn't know him enough to make that kind of a judgement call. Even worse, you were likely drunk, or at least buzzed, which makes your judgement worse.

    BUT... while it was *possible*, such things ARE still fairly rare. Most people are what they appear to be, and not hidden monsters. It's just that the cost of being wrong is very high, so some caution IS warranted..

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  • What? Can you remember anything that night or were you too drunk. But having sex with multiple men could give you STD's. I am not doing this to scare you it's true. But try not to sleep with random men.

  • Are you asking if going on your own to a guy's place with a bunch of his friends is potentially risky.

    Yes, its potentially risky.

  • there's a possibility they would have done it if you had stayed longer. especially under alcohol influence.

  • It's unlikely, but definitely possible.