I couldn't get him off giving him a handjob...

In my limited experience with guys, I have never had trouble getting a guy off with a handjob. Last night I was with this guy that I am dating and I tried 3 times to get him off and he couldn't. I have no idea what went wrong or how to fix it. My confidence is pretty shot after that...Any tips?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Try to, I Don't Know, spit on it? xD

    It becomes more "slippery" lot of guys likes that, I like it too.

    If you feel comfortable try to suck on it.

    I can't get off by getting jerked or sucked, to be honest I really like it when a woman rides me like a horse, my GF's body looks so stunning, to see her on top of me turns me on, that alone almost gets me off.

    This is a serious answer if you wonder :)

    Hope I didn't sound like a pervert !

  • All guys are different. Only holding your hand slightly wrong compared to his way of doing it might make it impossible for him to come.

    Best advice is to ask him to masturbate in front of you, while you observe. See how he holds his hands, rythm, pressure points. Then experiment and try out variations to technique until you find something that works.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Your best bet is to get some help from him asking what was not right. Probably most common mistake a girl makes is gripping the penis with to much pressure which takes away from the stroking sensation he should be getting.

    Suck and lick the head of his penis while you are lightly stroking the shaft and either when sucking or stroking use the other hand to lightly fondle his balls.

  • I just found out last night how to do it. My boyfriend loves to eat me out. It makes him throb. So While eating me out, I grab him and begin with a normal easy pace. If I hold it just right at an angle towards his legs, it makes him shake. I finally got him to come under 30 minutes.

    • Do you use any lubrication?

    • Not often. Sometimes, but I prefer without. He doesn't really care either way. Guys are different.

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  • Lots of people can't get off from just a handjob me included, you shud suck it.

  • I love hjs! But..was he tired? Or drinking alcohol? Or doing some sort of stimulants..like sudafed? Or maybe he was merely nervous...There are a lot of reasons that a guy can experience ED...Please don't worry about it...it is almost certainly something to do with his physiology----> link

  • I can't masturbate or get a hand job. somehow my primate brain knows "hey this ain't a woman vagina" and won't release. sometimes, blow jobs won't cut it ether. but if I am inside a woman... game on!

  • Keep practicing, it takes time to learn what a person likes.