I'm not experienced and he is very experienced.

okay, so my boyfriend is very experienced, but I have never been fingered, oraled, or anything, and obviously I'm a virgin. and because he is so experienced I feel like anything I try to do to pleasure him isn't going to be good, since I'm not experienced and he is very, I just need tips/help/advise, and how does the whole fingering and oral ordeal work out? any input will help; tthanks:)
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  • Don't worry about any of that. Just be your experienced self. Too bad you're starting with some guy that's all experienced with other girls because maybe sooner than you like, you'll be one of those girls too. I hope you don't want to hurry and do all those things you mentioned because experienced girls aren't as attractive and desired as the inexperienced ones. The object is to keep the experience way down until you meet a guy you really love and can trust, and one that respects you, trusts you and loves you the same. Other than that, you're just out there for fun for as long as it lasts and that could start a trend of one guy after the other because once you become known as a slut the only guys that will want you will be the player type of guys and the ones that only want you for the sex stuff you can give them. This is the fastest way to lose at life. Like right now, since your boyfriend is so very experienced,other people know that so you are already getting a bad reputation! But it is your life so good luck!

    • Good point.

  • I advise you to not by shy. I mean don't be embarrassed to ask him about anything. And don't be embarrassed to say you don't like that, or don't do that. The fun is in the learning so don't try to find out everything beforehand, learn as you go from him. He will enjoy introducing you to these new things. He won't be at all bothered that you don't know about it already.

    You don't say, do you masturbate? If you do, what he is going to do will be very similar, except for the oral part. I'm told by some girls that oral is the best thing a female can experience, even better than sex. I obviously don't know, but it makes sense to me.

    Anyway, go slow and enjoy the learning curve. Just one thing, I urge you to avoid intercourse for now. That comes later when you know a bit more about yourself, your body, and how to take care of it.

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  • hey sweetie don't feel bad I was the same until about a week ago then I let a guy finger me and go down on me for the first time at first I was really nervous but as soon as he started it felt great and since he was experienced at what he was doing I felt safe. just remember to communicate with him tell him if he is hurting you or if he is going to far. as for the pleasing him just ask him what he likes guys don't seem to picky most of the time .no offense. if you have more question s trask_sydney@yahoo.com

  • I no How Yuh Feel

    Im The Same But I found If Yuh Let Him Do All the Work Yuh Pick These Things Up Ouickly

    Hope It Helps

    SaoSumone xx

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  • relax if he is slow moving it will be good for you both . don't worry about not knowing what to do it kinda cums naturally. there is also online help sites that lead you through some stuff (oral for both) try different things he won't mind a bit and relax