Don't concern yourself with what's normal. Normal is a subjective, abstract concept. Normal is something that varies depending on what you're comparing. So abandon concerns about whether you being in love with her is normal.
Seriously though, you love her, you like her, you're attracted to her, you lust for her, you said she makes you happy. As far as I'm concerned, you don't need to concern yourself with anything else. Enjoy it. Other people's opinions shouldn't even matter. (By the way, when it's concerning trangenders, transsexuals, and transvestites, it is typically best to refer to them as the gender of choice. For example, this "ladyboy" was born male, but chooses to be female, so refer to her as a female. It's generally considered to be VERY rude, otherwise.)
Still, if you can't get past it yet, and you're concerned for what people think, then don't tell them. They don't need to know, you don't need to tell anyone if you aren't comfortable with it yet, and if she is put off, just explain that this whole thing is new to you, and you still need time to adjust to it, before you can tell people. She might be willing to relax a bit on that, if you explain that to her.
Anyway, if you're really concerned with whether this is normal or not, and you really need a "yea or nay" answer, then I'll just say you're pretty normal. You fell for her as a woman, and as a person. That's normal enough. The rest came later. Just tell yourself that. Don't drive yourself crazy with the rest.
As stated before...
- You love her
- You like her
- You're attracted to her
- You lust for her
- She makes you happy
That's the important stuff. Dwell on that.
Exactly. Focus on the good stuff. Focus on how you love her, and just treat this like it was any other relationship you'd have with any girl.
What do you need help with? You're attracted to her and you say you've fallen in love too.
Who cares if other people find it normal? It's not like you'll be announcing to the world every time you go out that she happens to have a penis. They'll just see a couple. Be happy you found someone you like.
don t feel guilty you will know a real love if she shares your love. me have met the love of my life in a ladyboy , the perfect love i was searching during yesar
It's normal and okay, and it shows that you really do care about this person, enough to overcome any prejudices you might have had before. Everything about her makes you happy, and you feel attracted to her as well, and that's what's important.
Also, she may have surgery eventually, if she so chooses, and whether she wants to make that decision or not, it would be nice if you'd be supportive of her choice whatever she decides.
Who cares if it's normal? If you love him and you're both happy and not hurting anybody then there is nothing wrong with it. I'm still not really sure what you mean by ladyboy, if you're speaking about a transgender person you may want to watch your terminology, because you could offend him or somebody else.
when you talk about a ladyboy or transgender woman, why don't you use the term 'she' ? She deserve it to be called like the gender she is!!!
You're fine. Gay guys aren't attracted to ladyboys. They usually like their men to be men. Ignore anyone calling you gay or bi. It's more complicated than that. If you like this girl, go for her. Forget about whether she's a ladyboy or not. It doesn't matter.
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F*ck "normal" (whatever that is). It's completely OK if it's OK with YOU.
As for everyone else- it's none of their damn business what you do either. The clearest sign of confidence and maturity is not giving a damn about what others think.
Its been called the best of both worlds. If you find that to be true... go nuts! (haha)
"normal" ... what is normal?
there are exactly 2 persons in this world who can tell if it's OK or not ... guess who ...
i for myself can't imagine that I could possibly feel attracted ... but I'm not you
i think that the fact that she looks like a women and has the plumbing on a male turns you on and excites you the most that's probably why you like her so much, She is a women a transexual women. Does she plan on getting the surgery or not? How do you think she would be viewed by people you know? Its up to you and only you no one should let you sway how you feel to have found someone so special to you. she is still a person and just because she has the anatomy of a male as far as sexually it does not matter. I would not call you gay because if someone saw you with her we would all think she was a female. That is private to you two and only that. If you really care what people think to prevent you from being happy I think you have issues. You sound like you really like her and enjoy her then be with her. if she indentifies herself as a women then that is what she is.
maybe you can have a good swordfight with her
LMAO
lol
youre homo, nothing wrong with it
dang lots of people think its wrong to be homo
lol, these fools crushed you.
its 2013 you think people wouldn't be so harsh on the gays
You don't need help as there is nothing wrong with falling in love with someone despite gender
i think it is a good thing no problem if he is happy that s the main point
love is something that happens to you. you don't choose the person you fall in love with. it just happen! I am in the same situation. I am straight! but i have meet a wonderfull woman on the net and she is a ladyboy. I don't care! She is great, love talking to her and (indeed i meet her on the www like they call it) i 'm going to visit her. it's strange that's true. And i realise that i only can decide when i meet her in real but we have such strong connection... Anyway, if you really love this woman (She is a woman, that is something you have to remind!!!) then i would say : 'go for it'. Not your friends or family have to spent time with her, but you!! She makes you happy? You make her happy? That is the only thing that counts
that is my opinion
I've also recently fallen in love with a young (22) trans girl. She's not only drop-dead gorgeous, but her male part is quite impressive, and she has promised not to have gender reassignment surgery as long as we're together. She makes me so happy, and I'm so proud to walk down the street hand-in-hand with her. I'm pretty sure most people think she's a woman - and to me, she's more than a woman - but I don't care. What people think of me (or her) is none of my business. My only concern is that some guys make remarks about what such a sexy young lady is doing with a much older man (I'm 64). I worry that one of them might convince her to cheat one me because he has a bigger schlong or more money. I know she loves me, but I also know there are younger and more handsome men out there who want a girl like her. I don't know how they would react if they knew she has a penis, but I don't even want to think about her with another man. She's only had two boyfriends in her life - both older men like me - but she's still so young. Should I be worried?
Me too, I’m hopelessly in love and I don’t care either
Same with me, I feel in love with a ladyboy too... We've been living together for over a year now and couldn't be happier.
Have to trust your instincts and not fear what people might say or act to you, if it's real, your true friends will accept your lover without reservations..
However, like any relationship it takes time, I wouldn't go and shout it to the world after the second time you've had sex... Life is so much more than a hour in bed... You'll figure it out, but with me, I just let it happen and we are just like any other couple... A caveat, I live in Thailand and ladyboys are everywhere and totally accepted as a third gender, so we get almost zero looks when we are together, less than the big fat old balding red faced white guy and his skinny beautiful 18 year old on his arm...
Anyway mate, just go for it, either way it will be a amazing experience!
Well you're in a minority, but it's nothing to be ashamed of. If the feeling's mutual, you should go for it.
have sex with the shemale already
the term is 'ladyboy or transgender womam ' not shemale!! it is disrespectfull!!
well you might be bisexual
this have nothing to do with it!! i guess you are someone who 's trying to be important her but you more look like a looser i'm sorry to say it like this
Gay men aren't attracted to ladyboys. You can ask them. They'll tell you.
It's true. Also being attracted to trans girls doesn't make you bi, either.
when you say lady *boy* are we talking under 18? because that would be a big problem.
No. Ladyboy doesn't mean under 18. Ladyboy is a term for somebody trans. Specifically male to female, and it is usually to describe transvestites more than transsexuals, but it's a little bit interchangeable.
this is the most stupid i have ever hear!!! Anonymous i really don't like you!!!
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