I found out my girlfriend dated a guy with an 8 inch penis before me and her dildo is also bigger than me!

and I can't get over it. I'm the one that made her show me her dildo and then when she was talking with me and a few of her friends after drinking she let it slip the biggest she had was 8 inches and I'm only 6 inches : ( How can I not feel worthless to her? She says size doesn't matter but then why is her dildo so big? As of right now I have no desire to try sex with her because I'm thinking it's pointless.
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  • Joke:

    A man and a woman are about to have sex for the first time. The man takes off his pants and his 3" penis comes into view. As he stands there smiling, the woman says to him, "Now, just who do you think you're going to please with THAT?"

    And the man replied, "Why, MYSELF, of course!"

    The point is: WHO CARES? You're plenty big enough to please her, and whether or not she likes you is a LOT more important to her being pleased by you than the size of your penis, as LJHam points out.

    This is all in your head, and either you grow up and deal with it, or you're going to sabotage your relationship and end up getting no sex at all. You can either be smart or dumb...

  • Dildo's (or is it dildoes?) are big because you need space to hold them with your hands. Most dudes, including you it seems, don't factor that in when they consider feeling "chumped" by a sex toy.

    And oh noooooo, she's had an 8 incher. What shall you ever do? Guess you should just wait until he gets done with her so you can have your sloppy seconds on her...oh wait, she's with you and not him...

    • What ever. It's not just length, it's thick. Besides that you're a guy so your answer means very little to me considering the site is meant to get answers from the opposite gender.

    • Funny the site auto corrects sex to gender. Must be a bunch of libs running this thing. I'm out of here lol.

    • This site is to get answers from anyone who can/wants to answer. I guess if you don't like "libs", you don't like anyone else who isn't like you either. Regardless, stfu and get over all this penis size/thickness business. It's not doing you anything other than harm.

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  • OMG, again with more penis insecurities. Women do not fall in love with a man's d*ck!

    We fall in love with the person. Once that happens we don't really care about his size, we care about HIM!

    My ex had a smaller than average member. We started out as a casual hook up and yes, for just a casual f&ck it was disappointing. However, we ended up spending a lot of time together. I grew to deeply love him and found myself constantly horny around him because I wanted him so badly - despite his size!

    So get over it! Listen to her. If she truly loves you then size doesn't matter.

    • You clearly don't understand how debilitating it is to be on the subject's end of that "disappointing" comment.

    • Well considering that disappointing guy ended up telling me his inability to stay hard was my weight I think I know a thing or two about debilitation. I was incredibly hurt when he said that. Not to mention he was the one who said to me the see we had wasn't good, I never said squat to him about his size. But I eventually developed some self worth and realized I'm awesome just the way I am, I don't need his approval. Don't let someone else determine how you feel about yourself.

    • Being judged for something that you can change is one thing, for something that is entirely out of your hands it's another story.

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  • How can I not feel worthless to her?

    Likely the same way she doesn't feel worthless when you most likely find other gals attractive, check out other gals, wank off to p*rn, and have fantasies or thoughts about other gals. That way being realizing that it's pretty pointless to compare yourself to others when your partner picked you.

    She says size doesn't matter but then why is her dildo so big?

    Likely when she has sex with you she cares more about the emotional connection than physical pleasure thus her dildo is their for her physical pleasure.

  • If you have ever fantasized or watched a p*rno about a girl who was more physically attractive than your girlfriend or had bigger boobs, thinner waists, etc. You're doing the SAME THING. Society has just told us we're being ridiculous so that you guys can continue to do what turns you on to get off. Let us do the same. If she wants a big dildo, fine. Should she start obsessing because her boobs aren't as big as the girl in the p*rno? Or because she isn't as pretty? Should she stop having sex with you because she feels inadequate? You're being ridiculous.

    • I used to watch p*rn a lot but since I met her I've only watched it a few times and that was before we ever had sex besides two times. I really only think about her now.

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  • Why can't you have sex with her? If it's less pleasurable for her 'cause she's jamming huge dildos in herself, that's her loss. At least sex still feels the same for you. If you compare yourself to other people, your life will be very, very sad.

  • You need to get over it. If she cared she would not be with you! If you make a big deal about it it could end the two of you.

  • She doesn't seem to think you are worthless if she is with you. The guy with the 8 inch penis is her ex and her dildo in an object so you really shouldn't feel competition towards them.

    • Answers like this are something I always find odd... Every time a guy ask if size matters someone always says, "It's not the size, it's how you use it!" But - that doesn't answer the question AT ALL! Assume that the two guys are the EXACT SAME SKILL LEVEL and that you ARE NOT IN LOVE with them at all. It's just a one night stand. Assume that were talking just buying a dildo here! Would you buy a 3" dildo that's 1/2" thick? Most likely not... So, size does matter on a physical standpoint.

  • Oh give me a break weirdo

  • Oh shut up troll. Go back on your female gag account

    • Wow. lol