I had an orgasm at the strip club last night

See what ha' happened was, lol, no, umm, well I hadn't masturbated since Friday night, so it had been at least 3 or 4 days since I had one. I'm single and not sexually active either. I didn't know it could happen, because you're technically not having penetrative sex or masturbating the way you're supposed to do it, but, nonetheless, I certainly did have one. It was about a couple minutes into my second dance with her and the song had just ended so luckily she didn't have to rub around on wet pants. Is this normal? Did she feel any wetness? I'm so embarrassed!
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  • The reason that happens is from not being sexually active. But also having a weak PC muscle.

    You can have emissions (like wet dreams) for example without the conventional masturbatory and vaginal stimulation received from penetration. If you didn't even realize you were reaching your PONR then that's fast!

    IT's OK though. We as men are predisposed to quick ejaculation. From evolution. It is not a disorder or anything. Strengthing your pc muscle and keeping fit will help you control ejaculation.

    Again it's normal from a function reproductive standpoint, but if you get a partner it can be a disapppointment and most women don't understand and feel disappointment and unsatisfied.

    Communicating with a partner and letting them know that it's normal and that you are making efforts to prolong stimulation with out ejacultion.

    Another thing is orgasm and ejacutlion are two different things. Typically for men they occur at the same time because of the way our anatomy is. While it is typical for females to have orgasm without ejacultion. It's literally yin and yang.

    • TY 4 BA :D

  • Shows your ignorance of the human body and your age. Sex is 90% in the mind. I have never got off or even hard after my first strip club which was a total nude place in Hawaii that allowed it's dancers to decide on touch or no touch.

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  • I find it very disgusting that a dirty stripper, whore got you that turned on I feel sorry for your future girlfriend. You are rotting your brain and you have not even had sex yet. sad that's all. I have no issues with p*rn go hard, but in my opinion the strippers is dirty.

    • I'm not a virgin, just not currently sexually active. thanks for being so judgmental, I appreciate it...go f*** off

    • hahahah yeah your a loser who can't get a good looking and classy lady

    • Nope, I just don't want one right now

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  • haha, cute :)

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  • Never happened to me, I wouldn't say it's normal but I bet it's happened before, you can get off by a girl grinding on your d***, it's possible. Don't be too embarrassed you're fine lol.

  • wow didn't know that actually happened.

    kind of envy you actually...sometimes it would be nice to be able to get off that easy/quick.

  • You just had a little fun at a fundraiser, helping young women raise money for community college. That's all!

    • LOL

    • Not all are at a community college. One of them is at a Uni

    • Yeah that won't last long, she might have the same tolerance for uni as your fun bag had for her on your lap.

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