I had sex with a condom but yet I'm still scared?

Hi all!
So I had sex last night (3am right now) and I regret it because I'm so damn worried. We used protection and the guy rolled on the condom and did it correctly. From what I saw he had no sores or anything on or around his dick. So we had sex with a non-latex condom (I'm allergic) and now I'm hella paranoid I have an std. He's been 23 girls and he says he doesn't have anything (he got tested in the past). I'm just so fuckin paranoid. It was a one night stand. I actually want to go back to my ex (for other reasons) and I'm worried that if I have something he won't take me back. so this was a one time thing. I've been overthinking to the point where my vagina started to itch on it's own but it could be that my hair is growing back (I shaved a few days ago down there). I'm still scared. Help?
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By the way I'm 24 and he's 31.
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  • I think you are just stressing because ultimately you feel slightly guilty maybe about having a one night stand when you would like to go back to your ex.
    Don't feel bad, its not as if you were cheating and you did not do anything wrong. You had a condom on and I am sure the itchiness is from shaving down there as if you shave down there with a not so good razor and the wrong way (the blade has to go in a certain direction) then it can cause itchiness and spots.
    If it is really playing on your mind, then you could go and get tested and then the results should put your mind at rest.

  • You are very unlikely to have caught something. Those poly condoms are really effective. But see a healthcare professional as soon as you can for testing as they recommend. And then consider whether you feel ok even having sex again without seeing a guys recent test results and stuff. Take a break until you can deal.

    • Thank you!!!

Most Helpful Guys

  • Yes you are paranoid. Most girls are when it comes to pregnancy especially when it's their first time. You're just feeling guilty because you want to be with someone else.

    • I have an IUD (the 5 year one) so I'm not so much paranoid about pregnancy but I am paranoid about STD's! & yes you are right.

  • It sounds like you did everything right. How was the sex anyway?

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  • He's been with 23 girls? Bitch you better check yourself before you HIV+ yourselfb

  • get a test and make sure..

  • Sounds like you need to relax and if you are that concerned, setup an appointment with your doctor and get tested.

  • Get tested an take it from there cuz you don't even know if you have a std an that's why 1 night stands are not worth it even if there beauty full plus that's how stds get so bad in America

  • Dont worry.. Erase it from your mind

    • Why?

    • Itching can happen after having sex..

    • Everything relating to the mind.. Just go for a check up with a known doctor

  • Don't bother much
    Consult doctor and get tests done