I had sex with my Mom's boss?

This is going to be a long post, but I want to make sure you get mostly the whole story. Okay, so I work temporarily 3 days a week at the office where my mom works for some extra money. I usually just file papers and organize file cabinets and stuff while I'm there, but about 2 weeks ago my mom's boss asked me to straighten out all the files in the cabinets in his office. I noticed him watching me a couple of times while I was in there but he would act busy anytime I would turn his way. He even made it a point to eat his lunch in his office that day while I was in there, which I've never seen him do. Ever since that day I noticed him always watching me when I was around or smiling at me and making small talk. Well, yesterday my mom wasn't going to be in the office since she had a meeting, but told me I could still go in and work if I wanted. I really need the money, so I decided to go in. When I got there my mom's boss told me that he wanted me to work on organzing the storage room in the back of the office. During the walk back to the office I noticed that almost every office door was closed and the lights were off except one. So basically it was me, him and one other person who had themselves locked away in their office. Well, to make a long story short, we ended up in the back room with the door closed and locked and we had sex. It wasn't like either of us pushed it on each other, I've always thought he was very attractive. He's 29 and I'm 21, so it's not like there is a huge age difference or anything either. I'm just worried now about when I go back to work. I don't want things to be super awkward and I don't want this to become a habit. There's no way this could happen again, especially with my mom being there. If she found out she would take it to the owner of the company and have him fired for sure. It was okay as a one time thing, but what should I do if he tries to do this again?
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  • well if there was someone locked away in their office they could have heard you two having sex and your mom or the boss could find out that way, and most businesses consider inter office sex to be taboo although I'm sure that it probably does happen but not when other people are around or have gone home. the other thing is that if you get into a relationship and things turn sour and you both work there and you start fighting with each other or break up, it may not be that great for you. I would say that it depends how you feel about this guy. do you like him enough to want to continue seeing him or not? if you are attracted to him and he tries doing this again, maybe you should talk to him first and explain that while you are attracted to him, that you don't really think that is appropriate to have sex where you work and that you are uncomfortable having sex at the office where you work. then maybe suggest to him to date so you two can get to know each other and go to each others' places if you live on your own or he does. if he really likes you and respects you and is mature enough he will understand. but if he pressures you and you continue to tell him no and the reasons why you said no, then he is probably not a great guy for disrepecting the fact that you don't feel comfortable or think it is inappropriate to have sex where you work. in that case, I would say that he is a jerk and move on. Good luck.

  • it doesn't sound like rape or even as if he forced you so if it was consensual he shouldn't be fired for something you both agrred to and enjoyed

  • Did you enjoy it? If you did then maybe enjoy the thrill of it. If you didn't just don't work alone with him.

Most Helpful Guys

  • HAVE THIS PERSON FIRED

    And start thinking some, because as you going you're going to end up a mess.

    But please!, have this person fired if at all possible.

  • "Sorry, but my mom's here and I'm nervous. Please don't make trouble." He'll respect that if he values his job.

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  • I didn't know trolls could get laid.

  • You should probably f*ck him again so you can start sleeping your way up the corporate ladder.

  • Tell it was fun but that's all it its.A one off.Quickly back off if he tried to be anywhere near you or being alone with you..That's all I can say