Everyone feels that way at first. You may feel like that a little more than average, but in the end, you just DO IT, and put it out of your mind, and then, you start to realize that there was never anything to be embarrassed about. Your boyfriend will LOVE your body, flaws and all (we ALL have them!), even if YOU don't. And he will love you for being willing to share it with him.
And eventually, you'll start to see yourself the way he sees you, and you'll start to be able to accept and love your body and the fact that other people can find you attractive.1 0 0 0It’s all in your head. No it really is, you were born naked so it is OK. Now it’s not a problem to hate being in public and exposed but if your even scared to take showers at home, then I’d talk to a professional. Other than that it’s not a big deal. I once read a story stating a married couple turned the lights out before sex for like 8 years.
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Most "private parts" look at least somewhat the same, so I'm sure your stuff isn't that weird if at all. How exactly do you think you look weird?
If a guy really liked you or wanted to be intimate with you, I'm sure he'd be fine with whatever you had.0 1 0 0I have beef curtains :( and a saggy but with stretch marks on it... and small B cup boobs with weird nipples.
I'm sorry you feel bad about that. But if it helps, after I saw a lot of girls in p*rn with "beef curtains" I thought my stuff was weird because I don't have them. So think about that. lol. Also, butts and boobs come in all shapes and sizes. Different guys like different types. Stretch marks are a normal and common thing for most people, just a result of parts growing rapidly in puberty. All nipples are different, so I don't know how they can be weird. : /
I hope this can help you laugh a little bit. If I were in your situation, it would help me feel better.
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1 4Do you ever think that you are not physically attractive?
0 0 0 0I just think parts of my body looks weird, and I'm so used to keeping my private parts hidden. I am not chubby or anything though... it's just my private parts that I'm shy about.
Well I think its a matter of being comfortable with yourself. I mean what is so weird about your privates?
my vagina is ugly. I have beef curtains :(
Yes, that would very much be a problem.
Were your parents very conservative about teaching you about puberty and sexuality by any chance?0 0 0 0no they weren't. I just think my private parts look weird.
Okay. I hope you can work on it, because it'll be very hard to find a guy who'll be okay with it.
why? we could still have sex if I could have something to cover me or do it with the lights off.
You're boyfriend would want to look at your body. Thus, yes, but every body is different. There are those who have the perfect body; thus, they don't mind walking around naked.
0 0 0 0why does he want to look at it? I don't care if I don't look at him naked... and my friends don't have perfect bodies, they are a bit chubby but still don't get embarrassed.
Because it's natural. he's going to want to mess around too. that's very important in relationships.
I look better naked
0 0 0 0Do you think you'll eventually be comfortable enough around your boyfriend to let him see everything?
0 0 0 0I don't know. It would be really hard :(
If I was your boyfriend, I'd like you to humor me. Give me something to look forward to, something to work towards. I'd be hoping that I was able to make you comfortable enough not to hide. I don't think "beef curtains" are unattractive. It's not something I even think about.
its not just beef curtains... all my private areas are weird.
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