I have a mole/freckle 'down there' ?

Uhm... it's kind of like between my outer lips and my clit hood. It's just a little bit smaller than a mechanical pencil eraser. so I guess it's a mole. it doesn't stick out. iv had it for as long as I can remember and my mum says I was born with it. it's dark brown so it's really noticeable. would that freak you out? would you assume it was an still or something? would it stop you from being close with the girl?
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  • Yea about the porn comment, be aware that porn stars usually use body make-up

    As far as your actual question, it wouldn't even register in my mind. I mean it's like a freckle. I get moles so they don't freak me out at all, it's like they don't even exist on a person's body to me. One thing that would tip me off is a scar because they always have stories behind them so I'd ask about how it became that way, besides that I don't see imperfections like that as something unattractive at all

    And I honestly see those things as beauty marks, they're things that add extra distinction to a person's appearance. It just draws attention to them, like a little exclamation point next to a word that makes you pay attention. So little distinctions like that just make me pay a bit closer visual attention, which if you look halfway decent, is usually a good thing

    It would probably be extremely hot if you shaved it smooth, that way you could see the contrast between the skin and the lips and the mole (imo)

    • Whaaat? body makeup? I didn't even know that existed. well that's why it bothers me. cause I do shave so its really easy to see it. most people that have answered though (like you) seem to see it as adding character and being interesting. which is awsome. thanks!

  • I have a lazy eye lid, and it kinda gives the impression that I look somewhat retarded because I can't fully open it up all the way. It looks like one eye's closed, one eye's open, hahahaha. used to be really self conscious about it; over time, I got over it, because most girls didn't really seem to care, some even thought it was cute.

    • ! : ) that's good! yea lots of people have lazy eyes but its usually hard to tell. unless you stare at them. for a looooong time.

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  • Mole reminder: ABCDEs.

    Since this mole isn't in an area that gets sun (probably!) it's unlikely that it is cancer, and since you've had it your whole life and presumably not noticed any changes, there is probably nothing to worry about.

    But this is the rule for watching a spot to make sure it isn't dangerous: if the mole is Asymmetrical, has a blurry or irregular Border, has variation in Color, has a Diameter larger than a pencil eraser, or is Elevated or raised (a tall bump), you should have it checked.

    If you notice it changing over time, you should have it checked.

    It's probably fine, and any reasonable guy won't judge it too harshly. Best wishes!

  • I have a mole down there as well and my boyfriend says he thinks its cute, its a little beauty mark :)

    • Hell yeah.

    • Yaaay! awh your boyfriend sounds like a nice guy : ) haha I never thought of it that way, like a beautify mark !!

    • He is a nice guy, I love him that's for sure, but ya he has never had a problem with it!

  • I have a dark brown mole down there too (more on my perineum, though) and my sister has one too.

    • Oh! that's so cool. I guess its a lot more common than I thought. i've never seen it in porn so I kind of just assumed.

    • No, I think it's fairly common. Porn stars are very fake- they often use editing and makeup to perfect themselves, so don't judge yourself against them.

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  • Lmao, smaller than a mechanical pencil eraser, eh dear?=P Nah that wouldn't bother Jeffery at all. I can't possibly imagine why that would bother anyone.

  • You know what they say, it's all good under the hood. I really wouldn't sweat it at all, it's these things that make everyone unique. Look at what a mole did for Cindy Crawford's cheek.

  • It'd be kinda sexy, actually.. a little special something that I'd know about you that no one else would...

    well, except for the fact that now you have told everyone else on GirlsAskGuys!

  • Most women I have taken a good look at...have some kind of very small moles or something...My only concern would be is it ...not something that your Gyne should keep an eye on ?

  • No, not at all. I don't expect any girl's body to be perfect, nor should you expect any dude's body to be perfect. We're all imperfect human beings, but what's important, is finding the right person for you. Trust me, any dude that genuinly likes you, will remain apathetic about the small stuff that you have no control over.

  • It would stop me or bother me one bit. Just an extra little feature that makes you unique. I don't think it would really bother anybody else, but I could be wrong.

  • Wouldn't bother me but I have a similar situation. I have a dark brown mole on one of my balls!

  • maybe it does look odd I don't know what it looks like

    but you made me happy so I would SOOO over look that!

  • I have a little beauty mark down there too on the outside. Every guys I've been with said it's kind of cute and aren't bothered by it at all. It's not like a huge bumpy mole or anything kind of like yours.

  • jeez sorry but that would creep the hell out of me. I'd end it right there if we were going out.

    • Seriously?

    • Well maybe not break up but I don't know maybe it's not as bad as I think.

    • That sucks.. : (

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