I have never cummed before is it a problem?

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I am 22 and have had sex quite a lot however u have never ever cummed is it a problem or not. Girls how do you make yourself or your bfs make you cum?

Please help me.

RichardBoehner · Accepted Answer

Solution 1: Attempt to stimulate the clitoris
Solution 2: Attempt to stimulate the g-spot
Solution 3: Try both #1 an #2 at the same time
Solution 4: Try a marital aid. Also i believe there are pills for that.
Solution 5: Try anal.
Solution 6: Try both #4 and #5 at the same time
Solution 7: Smoke weed. Everyone orgasms on weed.
Solution 8: You're fucked. Just try stuffing bigger and bigger shit in there until you get a reaction. About your only other option.

Remember it is the size of the boat AND the motion of the ocean, if its not long enough to hit your g-spot, that may be why, and smooth, repetitive motions win out over fast erratic ones. It can help to think of it like a building wave, and time the strokes in relation to your breath, this is very key. The faster you breathe, the faster it will come on, and if you try too hard to get there you backpedal a bit, lose the momentum. Also girls are much more psychologically influenced when they orgasm, its been studied that they can even in some cases think themselves into orgasm, thats how powerful it is. So try letting all the thoughts in your mind go, focus on just one thing, like meditation, only getting fucked. Also dont be afraid to try fem dom or submissive shit, whatever gets you off, some girls need that shit.

summiter · Accepted Answer

First of all, don't try too hard to orgasm, just let it happen. Try some different positions, try some lube and a whole lot more foreplay. Can you orgasm when you masturbate? Can your bf get you off with his tongue or fingers. Take things slow and try more foreplay.

taaylormaarie · Accepted Answer

I would start getting personal with yourself. Start touching yourself more and see what you like! It is very hard for most women to cum vaginally during sex most orgasms come from the clit.
As for making a man cum, waaay less complex basically just learning what you enjoy doing an far you're willing to go.
My final suggestion start watching p*rn, it could help you learn some stuff.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I have only ever had one orgasm in my life... I didn't like it so I settle for what I call "half orgasms" where I stop when it feels great but there's no real orgasm. I would suggest you have your partner stimulate your clit more, since that's what really gets most girls, even try anal stimulation while that's happening (as in him fingering your butt)

AnimeDreama · Accepted Answer

It isn't a problem. Some girls just don't cum. Some guys don't cum or don't cum as forcefully as they'd like. Maybe you have cummed but haven't realized it in the midst of that orgasm. Sometimes that happens to me. The orgasm is so powerful that I cum all over my girlfriend's face and don't know it haha

Annymous8 · Answer

You've never had an orgasm from sex or in general?

jmmmfi · Answer

Has he ever ate you ate you before? Some cum easier from oral than through penetration.

Anonymous · Answer

Fewer than 25% of women come from intercourse. Much better from oral, even better from masturbation.

Anonymous · Answer

Well, I made it to give my wife her first ever orgasm... So everything's fine, you might just need different stimulation. Trust and a feeling of safety is very important for women.

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