I just found out I took my boyfriend's virginity... three months ago

When we first started dating. It was pretty bad. We've never had good sex and I just assumed it was mostly him. I didn't ever say anything because he had also had some trouble with ED, especially at first. But I never guessed and he lied to me about it. I have absolutely no idea how to react about this. What do I do? What do I say?
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  • Well he lied but I sympathize with him because it's very embarrassing for a guy to admit he's a virgin, especially to a girl he likes. Now that you know you can confront him but I wouldn't make a huge deal out of the virginity thing unless he came up with some crazy elaborate lies about it. The ED thing you should be really sensitive about. He might just be nervous and get over it but if it's been going on for awhile it's an issue.

  • Tell him you understood he did not want to hurt his image as a man. You tell him being a virgin is rare and it meant he grew up in a morally strong family which he followed, a commendable trait, But lies are lies and he should not have lied to you and you will forgive him but not forget it. So lies are intolerable. Make sure he knows so it is a negative reinforcement as Skinner would say.

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  • Well it was three months ago, I guess decide if all in all its a big deal 3 months later. As for the bad sex that sucks... Maybe take this knew knowledge as a chance to train your own personal Olympian in the bed. Tell him what you do and don't like and see if he can better satisfy you.

  • Usually people who don't do good in bed are virgins and inexperienced.

    He is shy, and doesn't want his answers to lower his manhood. So he lied.

    You took his virginity? Ok, life still goes on.

    You can either teach him how to be better in bed or lie their like a mannequin.

  • Say nothing. What does it matter?

  • You harlot! :P

  • Why does it matter? And why would a virgin guy have ED? Premature ejaculation I get, but ED would be a sign of a serious health issue in a young virgin or a serious p0rn problem.

    • The ED is from a medical problem where his foreskin is too tight... He's been talking about getting circumcised to fix the problem.

    • That's called phimosis. It shouldn't keep him from getting hard. It just keeps his foreskin from going back