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I let my boyfriend finger me after 1 month. Is it slutty?

Me and my boyfriend have been dating 1 month. What would you think of someone who did this? Help?
Very slutty!! Shame on you.
Vote A
Slutty
Vote B
Eh. As long as y'all are dating it's fine
Vote C
It's whatever
Vote D
Not a big deal at all
Vote E
I think less of you now but not really slutty
Vote F
Not at all slutty. It doesn't
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Most Helpful Girls

  • How is that slutty, assuming you mean 'slutty' as in being with multiple sexual partners in a short period of time?
    You were fingered by someone you're in a relationship with so I see no wrong there, or room for anyone to judge. You're a bit young but what you do with your boyfriend or behind closed doors is nobody's business but your own.

    • Thanksb

  • Ugh I hate the word "slutty" and also that word is geared more toward women who have multiple sexual partners. It's totally fine... as long as you're both 16+ that is.

    • Okay. Thank you

  • If you like him why not. Enjoy it no need to feel guilty.

    • Okay. Thank you

Most Helpful Guys

  • Not slutty at all. If you were in 20s, by 1 month it'd be unusual to not be banging.

    • Okay. Thank you

  • If t was making the play, i would want her to let me do it. So, no.

    • Okay. Thanks

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I've heard curiosity killed the cat... but never a finger... you will be alright... I've heard worse...(probably done worse)

  • Not a big deal at all. Not slutty at all.

    • Okay. Thanks

  • Nope be careful have fun

    • Thanks!

  • I was fingering my wife around 2 to 3 weeks into our dating time as well.

    • Okay.

  • You're in relationship. You can go for it. It's your call baby.

    • Thank you

    • Share your experience with me. Would like to help in increasing your drive.

  • It's slutty sweetie. One month is too soon to be doing things like that. Plus it's not appropriate for your age.

    • What time is right then?

  • not at all slutty

    • whats ur age btw?

    • Soon to be 16.

    • cool, just dont try to be more intimate and stay safe

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  • Be safe !

    And not slutty at all

    • Thanks

  • Nope. My man did that to me 3 weeks in the relationship lol. Aslong as he's your boyfriend , the. It's okay.

    • Okay. Thanks

  • He is your bf!! You do whatever the hell you want with him... Or let him finger you 10 times a day you are not slutty at all...
    It's only slutty when you do it with random guys...

    • So it has to be with random guys or a lot of guys? Would you look down on someone who did that?

    • Yes it has to be with random or lot.. I dont necessarily look down on them but it's like I would never date/marry girl like that..

    • You wouldn't date or marry a girl like that?

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  • under 18's are really dumb. no offensce

    • Thanks. We try

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