I like being slapped and choked during sex, is it weird?

I love when my boyfriend slaps me and tells me what to do during sex. It us Such. Turn on when he says come on my cocky you dirty little bitc h as he is slapping or choking me. Is that weird?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • No that isn't weird I've only met one guy who I was comfortable doing that with. Sometimes people are afraid how someone will react to these things but actually want to do it too. Some guys I have dated didn't get what I meant or was afraid of how much pain was referring to so they would punk out and only spank me or lightly rest their hand on my throat knowing if this was p*rn or a hooker and they had the opportunity they would so go for it with more umph lol but I guess since I was their girlfriend they were sentimental and didn't want to hurt me. I'm actually scared that I won't find another guy like how I was with my ex since I don't know how me and my boyfriend now will be since that hasn't occurred yet and I really like wild and crazy sex and pain is my favorite thing and I'm not afraid to say that.

  • i don't think that is weird in the least, but I feel the same. a lot of people might look onto it as weird and call us maschosits but who cares what they think its your life not theirs. May I suggest getting into BDSM it takes it to a whole other level but only in the bedroom

Most Helpful Guys

  • No it is not too weird. My Girlfriend likes the same thing, it took me awhile to enjoy it because it goes against my good guy instincts but I really care about pleasing her so whatever she wants (within reason) she gets. Don't worry about it, as long as your Boyfriend is on board and you trust him to not really hurt you and take it too far, it is ok.

  • It just means you're a submissive masochist and we dominant sadists are ever thankful for women like you. I suspect as you experiment and investigate, you'll add a lot of other things you like to the list.

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  • I think that's really hot. That's normal as far as I'm concerned. As long as the guy isn't actually hurting his partner.

  • That isn't uncommon at at all.

  • That my dear, is a fetish call sadism. It can be weird to one person and normal with the next.

    • Sadism is hurting others. Masochism is hurting yourself. Sadomasochism is being hurt, hence the abbreviation S/M.

    • Way to use the dictionary on that one! My bad got my terms mixed up.

  • I would have thought that that was very weird...before I came on this site...would you pee for me?

  • yes it is!

  • Weird? Perhaps. But hey it's your thing, roll with it and hopefully you find a guy who enjoys it too lol