I love giving my guy oral but I can't swallow!

k so whenever I give my guy oral...he loves it! and so do I because I love pleasuring him. BUT, the natural taste of the cum, kinda seems weird to the tongue and I can`t swallow it. What should I do? because I can tell that its a turn off for my guy when he expects me to swallow it and I end up spitting it out of the car:( but he`s still ok with it because he`s too sweet not to force me if I don't like the taste...anything we both can do? and 2ndly, is it safe to swallow it?
1 1

Most Helpful Guys

  • Girls are NOT expected to swallow cum, and if a guy expects a girl to do it when she doesn't want to for any reason, there are problems in that relationship waiting to happen. If your case he's ok with you not swallowing so just continue now swallowing. However, having tissues handy is much better than having to spit out the window of a car. Also, you need to ask him to let you know enough time ahead when he's getting close to cumming so that you can finish him off by hand in a tissue. It feels just a good. The idea of swallowing is just something in a guy's head. If your guy is as sweet as you say, you really shouldn't have any problem then. Cum is not somthing designed for the mouth and stomach.

    • Perfect explaination!..thanks a lot:)

    • I'm so glad to hear that! :-) You're welcome.

  • its perfectly safe to swallow...nothing wrong with it...once he is clean of STD's.

    Anyway for swallowing, one girlfriend told me she hated the taste but she tried a deep throath me...so when I was cumming it would hit the back of her throath and she would not taste it as much...we only did it a few times but it might be something for you to try with him...or else use ur hand to finish him off...or one girl took off her underwear and wrapped them around my **** while I came...was great to see her panties around them...something new and different...hope you have fun and he is a lucky guy to have a girl care so much for him...i hope he goes down on you too...

    • Thanks for the comment...yeah the reason for caring him makes me want to find a way out where I can at least make him happy by swallowing it, because even though he pretends to be ok with me spitting out just so I won't feel forced, I still know inside my mind that it turns him off ..so I want to surprise him by making him happy for once at least. he didn't go down on me for long, I don't ask him to either, I want it to happen naturally so I'm just waiting for it.

    • Its a 2 way street....i think and if he asks for you to go down on him...u can ask the same...alot of girls love a guy going down on them so it might add to the moment so it will feel better for the both of u...i find that its a huge turn on for me to be down on a girl too..and he might too...so just ask and see..... but yes to surprise him would be great....try the panty idea...it worked on me... =) a nice soft satin or lycra pair felt good to me....what kind do you wear anyway?

    • Lol as for panties, my guy loves all I wear because I Chose carefully when I buy keeping in mind the type he likes, I wear silk ones with nets added to the front and he LOVES those lol...so what do I do though? take it off and cover his penis with it while he comes? because I really want to try new things with him for sure!

    • Show All

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's safe to swallow, might give you heart burn though.

    Tell him to let you know when he's going to come, and try keeping him closer to the back of your throat so when it comes out you swallow instantly without it sitting in your mouth.

    If that doesn't work, tell him you enjoy giving him oral, but don't want to deal with the cum. Ask if you can bring him to the point of cumming, and let him come on something else.

    Depends on if you can clean up or not, you could let him come on your face, or body, or his body. Or give oral over a condom.

  • i get really turned on when I'm giving head and the guy is about to blow his load ,so it never really bothers me... but when I feel him get hard before he cums so I'm ready or even when he cums more suddenly, I just keep sucking and swallowing his come as it rushes into my mouth. I don't usually keep it there for any period of time, so the time I even notice the taste is minimal. the only time I ever can't do that is when it's a mouthful in which case it just takes an extra second or two.

    and yes, it's perfectly safe to swallow it! good luck :o)

    • I think KimmyB is write, my girlfriend tells me the same, she says that she just keeps going when she feels all my come coming up, she does not let it accumulate in her mouth so she does not taste it.

    • Yeah that's true...he lets me know a min before when he's ready to come so I won't have to get it in my mouth then, and I then give him tissues to hold it with...he never forces me to taste or swallow it though, I just thought maybe I could find a way to like the taste of it.

    • Aw, well it's really good that your boyfriend doesn't force you to do anything you don't want to.. that's very commendable! I wouldn't say that I LOVE the taste of come lol, but the way I do it just makes it a lot less noticeable..so I actually really like swallowing. Good luck if you decide to try it at all :o) And thank you, michigan2489.. I'm glad your girlfriend and I are on the same page.. for your sake!

  • I know what you mean about the taste of cum. It is really just kind of yucky. What I like to do is don't make it seem like you don't want to swallow. When he cums just erotically put the come everywhere besides in your mouth: put on the corners of you lips and face and chin, let him dribble it down your neck, boobs and belly (PEARL NECKLACE!) and just have a lot of sexy fun with it. This is even better than swallowing I think! Oh, and btw, it is safe to swallow. I actually think it might be considered nutritious, lol. Good Luck!

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

8 14
  • lol It is safe as long as he doesn't have an std's...otherwise you should use condoms that are made for oral sex (ive never tried them though, but they're flavored) Have you let him just go on your face or other body parts instead, because guys like that too! If guys and girls eat lots of fresh fruits the taste is better for each...so that's one option. Other than that...if you want to swallow still...just swallow fast! Don't have gum or candy in your mouth because that won't help lol.

  • It's all in the MIND. Read this and your problems will be solved, forever. --->

  • Don't give up. Just keep swallowing. The more you swallow, the more you'll get used to it. After awhile you won't mind it, then you'll even acquire a taste for it. Once you acquire a taste for it. it becomes pretty good stuff and you'll enjoy swallowing it.

  • It is understandable that this would be difficult. Try doing this next time. When he is about to finish, just put him a little further back in your mouth, keep your jaw loose and hold him still so he doesn't make you gag. When he starts, it will be closer to your throat so it will be easier to swallow and not so much will be near the front of your tongue. It is safe to swallow as long as he doesn't have any STI's.

    You should only do this if you are comfortable with it. He's right to not try and make you do it.

  • Who cares if it's a turn off for him? Seriously. Your preferences are important, too. He's lucky that you're giving a BJ .

    "He's so sweet to not force me." Since when does not forcing something sexual qualify as "sweet"?

    What's wrong with so many young girls these days?

    • Thanks for caring really:) but you`re right its my right not to like what I don't want to perform..but I guess I care for him more than me actually and want to make sure he`s happy and gets what he wants in the best I can give him.

    • Stop worrying about making guys happy with sex. Recipe for disaster.

    • How is it a disaster though, I mean I'm trying to pleasure him right...

    • Show All
  • Only things that are fun for both involved parties should be practised. If you don't enjoy swallowing, he should not expect you to do it. Anything goes in sex as long as it harms nobody, and both people want too do it.

  • I don't know if the guys understand that girls are expected to swallow.

    Cum on your tummy, breasts, back, etc.. it's just not the same as putting the cum inside you. It's deeply personal, and your man can feel exactly what you feel by the look on your face.

    Pineapple makes it sweeter, but it doesn't taste much better. I suggest trying to get him to cum deeper, or tell him you're trying. That might make him shocked at how you care that much about pleasing him.

  • Haha. Yeah it's totally safe. I don't know what you can do but the thought that you want to do something you don't like for his pleasure speaks volumes about you.

    • Speaks volumes about me? c an you be more specific on this please? lol

    • It means that you care for him and love him a lot. You care for his pleasures too, irrespective of whether it's in your capacity or not. "Care" is the keyword.

    • I want you to read this before thinking about it

      link

      If you feel uncomfortable it is okay and you don't have to but there is another category of women who spit it out too. I am sure you are not one of those.

  • if you don't like the taste then there is really nothing you can do... if he isn't pressuring you into swallowing then don't worry about it... And it really isn't that safe to swallow it... That is one way you get HPV... but I still do it... lol

  • Your not expected to swallow, and you don't have too. You can put his come in other places, depending what your comfy with...face,boobs,chest, bum, anywhere you want. As long as you both enjoy it then it won't matter if you swallow or not.

  • you don't have to swallow, that's just an added bonus for us, and yeah actually its considered protein, so yeah it is good for you

  • deepthroat him right when he's cumming and it'll shoot down your throat you won't taste it there is also blowjob candy stuff you can by at sex stores or regular candy to maybe help or if he eats healthy and a lot of fruits doesn't drink or smoke it'll taste sweeter but texture will be probably similar if he's into it let him come on your face or on your t*ts this will turn a LOT of guys one if the girls can't swallow however if you just gave him good head and took his come in your mouth and you spit it out I'm sure he's happy with it I know I would be but the quickest way to get the come out of your mouth is to swallow it and also helps if you have a drink nearby

  • Lol

    Honestly I don't want it in your mouth anymore than you do, cause its like, eventually we gotta kiss you again, LOL, but finishing in your mouth just feels awesome. He could give a shit if you swallow, jesus

    Unless he is down with the snowball, lol

  • Cum is very weird texture and has very aweful taste... trust me I know... My man loves me to swallow... but I just put up with it and do it anyways because he loves it and I love him. I think you should just put up with it an swallow it... don't keep it in your mouth for very long as soon as he cums swallow. Umm.. however, You might feel a little woozy later throughout the day... come doesn't really sit well in a woman's stomach because the stomach muscles don't really know how to digest it and are not used to digesting it.. so you might feel a little sick. But is it safe... yes! It's perfectly fine, you won't get pregnant or get any aids from swallowing. It should be fine. But seeing how you have already given your boyfriend head, then I guess I should say watch out for getting Herpes or Gonorrhea...

  • yes its safe to swallow. 2nd, we guys don't care if you spit or swallow, just let us finish in your mouth (which you do, because you care about your man). now, you can either spit (like you do now) or (and it makes us feel our girl is naughty=TURNON) swallow and here is how...when he is about to cum, put his penis way back almost to your throat..when he cums you won't be able to taste it because it will shoot down your throat...it WILL be easier if you bring something to drink along however

  • Tell him you'd like to try swallowing but want to take it slow. If he's as sweet as you say he will understand and be thankful he has someone like you, and will understand if it turns out you don't like it. Start by tasting some of his precum or squeeze out and lick off the last drop of cum left in his dick after having sex. Then move up to a little more volume such as licking some off your fingers after a handjob. If you're still okay with it, let him shoot a small amount into your mouth to see if you can handle it before moving onto more. Be open with him and tell that this is new to you, that you want to please him, and appreciate his patience and understanding. Don't rush it. If you find the taste objectionable, ask him to experiment by altering his diet such as drinking pineapple juice. I'm sure most guys would love to be part of that kind of experiment.

  • Its safe to swallow it but if you can't swallow it don't force yourself. Why don't you two take a shower together? It might be fun.

  • Yea its save to swallow from what I have read. If you can try deep throating him right before he come and let it just be in the back of your throat and it will just slide down.

  • I give free advices to women who can't swallow semen.

    Just add me on MSN : art_oral@hotmail.fr

    And I'll give you solutions to be able to swallow without gagging. Men who want their girlfriend to swallow can also add me.

  • Great advice i love to do oral on my man I have a problem my mouth gets real dry my solution to this problem is i use lifesaver candy in my cheeks my favorite is grape. But any will do if in a pinch will use jolly ranchers when he cums it tastes like whatever flavour is in my mouth
    Personally I swallow everytime I figure I go through all that work why spit thtas my prize for a job well done.

  • Show More (2)